"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Alphathree

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Texting conversation just now:

Me: "If you're not there tomorrow, I'll be forced to use my secret weapon."
Her: "Lol. What secret weapon?"
Me logs off.

Another one for texting that I like but didn't use today:

Me: "Hey, you know I noticed something odd about your hair today."
Her: "you did?!"
Me logs off.

If you're texting, use this formula from time to time. It's hilllllllarious. If she's into you, it'll be bugging her until the next time she sees you and she won't be able to wait to get an explanation.

(I shouldn't have to say this, but DONT GIVE HER THE EXPLANATION!)

If she knows your number and you get under her skin in just the right way, your phone will ring. Let it ring the maximum number of times, then pick up and be like, "uh, hello?"

Act like you don't know what she's talking about, then get rid of her as soon as possible.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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theres a thing called palying too many games and trying too hard. This tip is the perfect example of that.
 

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Originally posted by griffon65
theres a thing called palying too many games and trying too hard. This tip is the perfect example of that.
You're so right... except that I might play one or two such games every few weeks.

The rest of the time is just what I call my 'confident rapport' phase.

But yes, I can see an AFC might misinterpret my OP and it would hurt his game.
 
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