"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Alphathree

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Texting conversation just now:

Me: "If you're not there tomorrow, I'll be forced to use my secret weapon."
Her: "Lol. What secret weapon?"
Me logs off.

Another one for texting that I like but didn't use today:

Me: "Hey, you know I noticed something odd about your hair today."
Her: "you did?!"
Me logs off.

If you're texting, use this formula from time to time. It's hilllllllarious. If she's into you, it'll be bugging her until the next time she sees you and she won't be able to wait to get an explanation.

(I shouldn't have to say this, but DONT GIVE HER THE EXPLANATION!)

If she knows your number and you get under her skin in just the right way, your phone will ring. Let it ring the maximum number of times, then pick up and be like, "uh, hello?"

Act like you don't know what she's talking about, then get rid of her as soon as possible.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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theres a thing called palying too many games and trying too hard. This tip is the perfect example of that.
 

Alphathree

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Originally posted by griffon65
theres a thing called palying too many games and trying too hard. This tip is the perfect example of that.
You're so right... except that I might play one or two such games every few weeks.

The rest of the time is just what I call my 'confident rapport' phase.

But yes, I can see an AFC might misinterpret my OP and it would hurt his game.
 
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