"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Mini FR First Day of College

Mando

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As the title indicates, this is a mini field report of my first day of college. I was actually disappointed that I didn't get many chances to talk to anyone because my retarded teachers let me out late etc and I had lunch plans with someone so I couldn't stick around after school(I get out at 1). So here it goes:

Alright, I get there and have about 15 minutes until class starts. Me being dumb, instead of going for an easy warmup I start looking for the hottest girls right off the bat. So I see this cute girl, i'd say around an 8.5, and she's just chillin sittin there by herself. So I broke the 3 second rule(need to fix this I always do it) and walked by, but then finally decided I wasn't going to chicken out of this one.

Me:Hey
Her:Hi
Me:You look bored haha
Her:Yeah just waiting for class to start
Me:Oh haha are you a freshman?
Her:Haha yeah are you?
Me:Yeah....I'm just waiting for class to start too
Her:Oh, what class do you have?
Me:Umm math its somewhere in this building haha. What about you?
Her:Oh me too! Is it room somethingsomething?
Me:Oh nope we have different rooms, haha oh well.
----Fluff talk about summer and stuff for like 5-10minutes-----
*At this point we were sitting in a really hot spot, probably like 85 degrees or so, I should've been smart and moved locations with her to a shady spot but didn't think of it at the time.
Me:Haha well I better get to class, you should give me your number so we can talk some other time.
Her:Haha I'm good thanks tho(idk why she said thanks?)
Me:Alright well I'll see you around haha
Her:Ok bye nice meeting you!

Crash and burn attempt one, probably should've tried to built more comfort instead of just fluff talk by moving her to a different spot and actually using some kino.

There was another girl who I pretty much ran the same routine on but she said she had a bf, even though she was probably bs'ing.

Third girl I had met at orientation and been talking to her thru facebook, she has a bf tho and its going well for her so I don't wanna mess things up. She has a class with me so I walked in and she waved and smiled at me, she's really pretty too so instant social proof for the girls that saw her save a seat for me, ended up walking her out and chit chatting for like 5-10, got her number just for fun.

Anyways, I think it was pretty rough and didn't talk to as many new people as I wanted to, due mostly to the fact that I was running to class when I wasn't in one. I'm trying to get approach anxiety and number closes down because thats whats killing me at the moment.

Any insight would be great, thanks in advance. :rock:

Edit: Sorority girls are HOT
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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mtlwlu

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good for you for approaching, im not sure if you tried to move location the girl would of tagged along, seems kinda creepy especially when you want to incorporate kino too, instead of going for a number in a quick situation like that, go for an email or facebook add, then be flirty there, tell them youll be at X location on campus tomorrow and see if they swing by, then work your magic. Good work on approaching keep it up.
 

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mtlwlu said:
good for you for approaching, im not sure if you tried to move location the girl would of tagged along, seems kinda creepy especially when you want to incorporate kino too, instead of going for a number in a quick situation like that, go for an email or facebook add, then be flirty there, tell them youll be at X location on campus tomorrow and see if they swing by, then work your magic. Good work on approaching keep it up.
Yeah good idea, I think im gonna go for facebooks because numbers seem too sudden since they barely even know me, and if i don't get in contact some other way ill probably never see them again haha.

By moving I meant to a different shadier spot, because we were sitting in this super hot spot and were both like damnnn its hot, so I was just gonna suggest moving to the shady area, but idk if she would've came with.

Thanks again
 
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