mini bootcamp in the baltimore/dc area

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

WC2

Master Don Juan

Nov 3, 2009

So I've never really run my own bootcamp and don't intend to.. or intend to call it a bootcamp anyways.

But I've got about 6 months left in the area and would be willing to help/sarge with anyone out there.

I'm a little tired of simply just giving advice on the forums and would like to actually go out and have a good time while learning on the actual field.

I know plenty of people especially in the baltimore area, so we won't pay a thing for club cover or anything like that.

pm me for details

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.