"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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If you have anger, fear, frustration, hopelessness, SHAME, GUILT, doubt. Any of these or like these in your mind and heart it will be difficult to attract women. You can be tall, dark, handsome, wealthy, smart; but with a negative mind not much success.

If you are angry at women for choosing chad or angry at chad for getting chosen, or the last woman that did you wrong, that anger will block you; almost completely. When you get to within about one meter of a woman if your mindset is strong she will 50 or 90% of the time look at you and want to look more. We have other threads on how to decode the eyes and other motions/expressions.

It is possible that a woman will choose you when your mindset is crap, but it's low unless you really have high SMV, like an 8 or a 9. However, only 4+ will ignite interest if the mindset is strong, at THAT moment. If your a 5,6,7 then 7,8,9 will have interest if your mindset is radiating. Lower SMV women will stand away because in that moment you're out of her league. If you are bummed out because not tall, not wealthy, dry spell; give up and go do something to feel good about yourself and your abilities. It really doesn't matter what as long as it makes you feel like a king or even better like a tyrant (amused vs dark)
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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