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If you have anger, fear, frustration, hopelessness, SHAME, GUILT, doubt. Any of these or like these in your mind and heart it will be difficult to attract women. You can be tall, dark, handsome, wealthy, smart; but with a negative mind not much success.

If you are angry at women for choosing chad or angry at chad for getting chosen, or the last woman that did you wrong, that anger will block you; almost completely. When you get to within about one meter of a woman if your mindset is strong she will 50 or 90% of the time look at you and want to look more. We have other threads on how to decode the eyes and other motions/expressions.

It is possible that a woman will choose you when your mindset is crap, but it's low unless you really have high SMV, like an 8 or a 9. However, only 4+ will ignite interest if the mindset is strong, at THAT moment. If your a 5,6,7 then 7,8,9 will have interest if your mindset is radiating. Lower SMV women will stand away because in that moment you're out of her league. If you are bummed out because not tall, not wealthy, dry spell; give up and go do something to feel good about yourself and your abilities. It really doesn't matter what as long as it makes you feel like a king or even better like a tyrant (amused vs dark)
 
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