"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Mindset: The Dynamic Factor

amazingswayze

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Why is it that mindset is always changing? Why is it that some days I feel amazing, and others I feel bad? Mindset is something I really need to develop better control of. I feel like one single thing happens and it totally changes the way I feel.

For example, last night I send out a tweet, "Is it better to succeed or learn from your failures?" And my old oneitis crush replied to me. She said "You need to fail in order to succeed in some cases" I never say the right thing when it comes to her. I just freeze. It took me almost 30 minutes to reply, "You would know" And she favorited it. It's hard to explain why but my mindset has been screwed up all day because of that. I don't want to be stuck in the past.

This is coming from the girl who rejected me the past two years. The one to who I finally expressed my feelings. Now when I'm getting my **** together, she pops up again. I feel like I will always be an AFC so long as I am reminded of my mistakes with her. I've posted about this in my HS journal and in one or two threads.

Bottom line, mindset is always changing, and it is imperative that we get a grip. I have a lot more work to do.

Mindset; why is it so hard to control?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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