Ive been having a hard time approaching girls lately and I have to admit that my mind set is not good at all. I follow Tim and all of your advice to not care what other thinks of you but its hard to explain it just doesn’t click. I feel like my mind always tells me that the only way you can approach since you are a beginner is approach at the mall because if you approach at school you will mess up and deal with social consequences and if you mess up a lot will ruin your reputation. If you are a beginner is it recommended to approach girls first at the mall then at school? I know this is pathetic how im thinking but tomorrow is school so i have no chance to approach at the mall n need some motivation. I was following Tim from the flawless natural and listen to how he does his day game which i feel is more appropriate for school. Also sometimes I feel like when i approach girls I will stutter. I don't stutter when i talk to people but I use to stutter a lot when I was young n still feel I have it, which messes me up. Any advice??
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Mindset is JUST MESSED UP!!!
- Thread starter Jamal
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
War Against Betaism
Master Don Juan
This is normal, it is all just a confidence problem. Ever played Rock Band? When your friend said "You're up next," even though you had nothing to lose at all, you were still nervous about playing? Then after your first song, you want to keep playing? Same thing applies to everything in life and the same thing applies to your situation. Human beings fear what they don't know because whatever the unknown is it could range from extreme pleasure to extreme pain. Even though we know what the unknown is in this situation, we (or you in this case) haven't really thoroughly experienced what it is like to approach.
It is not about mindset in this case, it is about being a normal human being, fearing the unknown. Throw yourself in the fire and later you'll be able to tame it.
It is not about mindset in this case, it is about being a normal human being, fearing the unknown. Throw yourself in the fire and later you'll be able to tame it.
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I fully approve with the above post.
WAB, great post, that's a great tip, applicable to many things in life. i'm gonna remember that one. Great job! :rockon:
also, one more post til you hit a new milestone!
WAB, great post, that's a great tip, applicable to many things in life. i'm gonna remember that one. Great job! :rockon:
also, one more post til you hit a new milestone!