"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Hey Men

Deesade referred recently to a feeling I know first hand , I'm seeking some reference materials,books and advice from the guys who've been around the block a few times pls.. He pontificated a mindset that fluctuates between enjoying female company esp sechs but then the dread of the time investment/claustrophobia this inevitably leads too. Don't get me wrong I genuinely enjoy women's company when they are quality ; but even then don't we all just think ,time for changes.....But alas when when its done , hmmmm she's quality n I should reach out???. Surely I'm not alone here guys....
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Fruitbat said:
Dude, I have been needy for years. Suddenly I have 3 solidly fvckable plates and my brain has changed overnight. Although I much prefer one plate. Even if plate one wanted a relationship I would have to fvck the other two a few times before I feel ready. That's how quick my mindset changed.

One has a great personality, and is hot. One has big boobs and is riddiculously keen, to the extent I am wondering how amazing the sechs will be (not laid just yet). The other is more of a mystery and exotic. I want all these flavours. I wish the main chick would just let me game the other two whilst being faithful.

Of course, that's fantasy land stuff but a total shift on me 2 weeks ago.
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Sometimes the main one would let you. Especially if she wants to play with women occasionally or something.
 
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Lots of great sites out there. Google
Roosh V
Gorilla Mindset
Return of Kings.
Great reads there and this site too
 
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