"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Mindblowing: This is what you have been needing

Daddy The Pimp

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Guys i just got this masterpiece and i thought it is going to help you drastically .

This is a free 2 hour Tyler seminar .

www.realsocialdynamics.com/audio.asp

I've been reading a lot of threads and i know that this is exactly what you need.
To every AFC thread , this is gonna be my response .

This is going to fill a lot of gaps . Its a must-listen brothers .
I want to hear your comments :rockon:

EDIT: Just noticed that the seminar is a bit old but it has some solid points and deal with some problems that are fvcking up most of the people in community .Pure gold.
 
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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Became generic PUA crap after the 50 minute mark (where he starts talking about strategies and stuff), but the mindset pick-me-up during the first bit was good
 

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MisterMcGee said:
Became generic PUA crap after the 50 minute mark (where he starts talking about strategies and stuff), but the mindset pick-me-up during the first bit was good
Yea , it starts talking about openers and routines and sh1t . But still haves some solid points . And this is pretty old , back when RSD were using routines .

I loved the part where he says that we should not obey to Pickup crap rules all the time . And its not us or them . The mindset is gold .
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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What does this talk about? Can anyone give a resume?

Thanks in advance!
 

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@Groovy

I dont know brother , i forgot the main points because i listened to it weeks ago . All i can remember is that i liked it very much and many people on here need it .

But you should bear in mind that this is old maybe 2 years and thats why he starts speaking about routines and other sh1t. But trust me , its worth listening . Just put it on your mp3 and listen :up: . Ill be waiting for your review .

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http://www.becometransformed.com/tyler/
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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wow you know i never really understood the mindset stuff, but this has really changed my impression.

Thanks alot!
 

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What is it actually about before I invest my time listening to Tyler's old stuff :)
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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