Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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I've noticed something happening to me, and I would like a few advices.

I have read a lot of this and other forums, books, articles, etc. And I can say that I know a lot of stuff about seduction, but my problem is when I go in field ... I know about bodylanguage, I know about how to use words to seduce, ...a lot of things that I've been tought in this forum, but in field my mind goes blank, everything I knew is gone I don't think about stuff learned here on forum.

Did you experienced a problem like this, and if your answer is YES, please tell me how you resolved this problem. Waiting advices.

Thanks
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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young_gun

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YES. And that was because I tried to go out with these "pre-scripted routines" that I read online. Once I stopped trying to be someone I wasn't, I started having successes. Seriously, all you have to do is relax. I used to go to malls, stores like Target, etc. with the specific intent to meet women, but now I just make it a goal to talk to women if I happen to run into them in the places that I go. I'll make a comment about what seems to be going on at the time, the food, something like that. That's the best way to go if you ask me.

Remember, you don't have to have a 30 minute conversation with her / get her to be your girlfriend when you first meet her. All you have to do is get her phone number.
 
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But I would like to be aware of the things tha happen around me, and notice them. I forget about attitudine. mindset, everything.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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no you don't, you need to get out and start using your eyes.

there's no magic bullet on the internet. you have to take action. there's no way around this. get off the computer and go our right now.
 
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