"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Mind Goes Blank

Mitza

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I've noticed something happening to me, and I would like a few advices.

I have read a lot of this and other forums, books, articles, etc. And I can say that I know a lot of stuff about seduction, but my problem is when I go in field ... I know about bodylanguage, I know about how to use words to seduce, ...a lot of things that I've been tought in this forum, but in field my mind goes blank, everything I knew is gone I don't think about stuff learned here on forum.

Did you experienced a problem like this, and if your answer is YES, please tell me how you resolved this problem. Waiting advices.

Thanks
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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young_gun

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YES. And that was because I tried to go out with these "pre-scripted routines" that I read online. Once I stopped trying to be someone I wasn't, I started having successes. Seriously, all you have to do is relax. I used to go to malls, stores like Target, etc. with the specific intent to meet women, but now I just make it a goal to talk to women if I happen to run into them in the places that I go. I'll make a comment about what seems to be going on at the time, the food, something like that. That's the best way to go if you ask me.

Remember, you don't have to have a 30 minute conversation with her / get her to be your girlfriend when you first meet her. All you have to do is get her phone number.
 

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But I would like to be aware of the things tha happen around me, and notice them. I forget about attitudine. mindset, everything.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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marinetti

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no you don't, you need to get out and start using your eyes.

there's no magic bullet on the internet. you have to take action. there's no way around this. get off the computer and go our right now.
 
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