"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Millionaire Matchmaker.. has anyone seen this show?

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there's this tv show called 'millionaire matchmaker' on tv about some dating matchmaker lady who fixes up millionaire guys with women for long term things.. she has this one rule of 'no sex before monogamy' i find a lot of what is happening a crock of sh1t.. has anyone else seen this show.. what are your thoughts?

surely these millionaires shouldnt need to attend some sort of club to meet women to marry.. and realistically the women who join these types of clubs are clearly after one thing: successful, rich millionaires without bringing that much to the table themselves..
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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has anyone seen this?

i dont like how the main matchmaker tries to turn the millionaires into afc's having to be chivalrous and wine and dine the HBs. pedestaling them and what not.. these women haven't proven themselves worthy of being wined and dined yet she promotes that.. seems like she's trying to control the frame.
 

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You sound jealous.
 

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so what if he is jealous? that does not make or break the accuracy of his commentary.
 

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Nothing turns on a woman more than money.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Never seen it, but heard about it.
The show is fake, like 80% of reality TV.

They may not be "professional actors" but they are put in set-up situations, and told to initiate and escalate drama.

Even shows like Pawn Stars is set up and fake (google it).

Check out this video, which makes it blatantly clear how "real" reality shows are. Start at 1:10 to skip some bullsh1t.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qhtOXWuzNgw
 
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