"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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MillionBillionaire

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Last night was a success. I didn't get laid but I got three phone numbers in 2.5 hours
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I took with me a crappy wingman, I should have gone solo. Next time I'll go solo for sure.
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The night started out with a bang. The dance floor was empty witch is my favorite thing to see. I immediately head to the dance floor as soon as I grab my first beer.

As soon as I start dancing three hb 6.5's come out and we get to dancing.

I make sure that I mingle a bit with everyone before talking to my target. We are dancing and the song goes to a quieter song so I stop her and we chat...

me: Woooo! Hey how's it going?

hb6.5: Hi pretty good.. Why is the dance floor so empty? (points around)

Me: I know WTF! WTH is everyone doing? Where are all your friends

hb6.5: Oh they are over there (she points and they come over)

Me: (I get every ones names and introduce myself when they all come over)

I pull my phone out almost mid conversation and I get her number. 35 year old mom of 2 boys... birthday next week.. gives me info about what she is up to for the next few weeks.. slightly suggests that we could meet up.

After I get the number I tell her to go mingle and I jet to the bathroom..

SUCCESS.. I have had soo much trouble getting myself to ask for the number getting the first one right away felt good.

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I head back out to the dance floor to find it empty again. I spot 2 girls by a post closed off when one of them looks at me.

HB 6.75 and HB 6.5 standing there when I approach them within 3 seconds of noticing them and I start dancing with both of them.

I start talking to the 6.5 about her tattoos, little kino and small talk about other stuff fast. I make sure to talk to my target and make sure she feels like she is part of "my approach." Finally I talk to my target. I don't even remember what I small talked to her about.. I got her number right away. Right after I got her number I asked her friend for her number :woo:

She said she was married.

I jetted as soon as I got hb 6.75's number and a no from hb 6.5 with the tattoo's because she was married for 6 years.

At this point I was feeling good. Could have ended the night right there and I would have been happy with the two numbers I had so far.

I check on my chump azz wing man not doing shytt and I leave him because he was smoking alone at the front of the club outside.
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I get back inside feeling like a boss because I got two numbers pretty fast and the first group of girls I got numbers from saw that I was getting more numbers on my phone from the second group.

The dance floor is popping now and there is a small opening in the middle of the floor witch I immediately start to own and dance in.

By now everyone seen that I am dancing with chicks and getting their numbers.

I end up being smothered like an sandwich by three girls and I do a booosss job dancing with all three of them. I end up grinding so hard with one of them she is pushing me over.. she locks hands..

I go for their names.. get all their names ... get the number from the girl I was grinding the hardest on and Jet. she was about a hb 6.75
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I go outside to find that my wingman got kicked out for some stupid reason.

Right when it is time to get to the heavy grinding lip locking second part of the night.

I dance for a little bit and leave at the peak of the night.

I should have gotten the bartenders number too because I have seen her there before and she has shown me signs of wanting an approach.

My chump assz friend was trying to convince me to call and text all the numbers I got asap... and ask if I got the right numbers :crackup:
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To sum everything up...

Pretty successful night. I used to have a really hard time getting numbers.

Three in one night is fantastic when I haven't gotten one all year.

****ty Wings are stupid jackazzes that get you kicked out of clubs. This happens to me alot. Next time Solo or no go.

I'm glad all the girls had easy names to remember. I only took the time to enter the second girls name into my phone as a place holder.

I went from not having a soul to call or text for a date to having three plates to work with. :D
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Thank you dj's ! I'm quite satisfied !!!!!!!!!! :cheer: :cheer:

Read the Bible!!!
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Really cool to see another guy realize how easy it is to get numbers!

With that being said, keep in mind that numbers don't really mean much. Your next sticking point will likely be girls flaking on you, in which the solution is to run a solid interaction, because girls hand out their numbers like free candy.

A few months from now you're going to be like F*CK NUMBERS, SAME NIGHT LAYS ONLY.
 

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Vice said:
Really cool to see another guy realize how easy it is to get numbers!

With that being said, keep in mind that numbers don't really mean much. Your next sticking point will likely be girls flaking on you, in which the solution is to run a solid interaction, because girls hand out their numbers like free candy.

A few months from now you're going to be like F*CK NUMBERS, SAME NIGHT LAYS ONLY.
On my next outing I'm going to step up my game by rolling solo and going for kiss closes. I had the chances to make out with the third girl but I was just amazed I was getting numbers and was killing it.. making out on the dance floor would have been too awesome to handle at once.. small steps I guess..

I am predicting massive success on my next outing.. Solo and 4 hours, not worry about getting kicked out because of stupid wingman.

I wish I had my own place again. I am back living with my mother but I have a decent car.

I might just have to go in next time with the mind set of same night lays ... but it has to be at their place or in my car. :woo:

For real though I used to have severe depression because I was horrified to get a girls number even if she was begging me to ask for it and I really wanted it. I just had a mental block that stopped me from asking even if we were having a good time.

I was always the guy that got alot of attention because I was a good dancer but I never got anyones number or had any kind of real social interaction...

Spring is comming ... WATCH OUT :box:
 

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Nice. Remember it's okay and preferred to have sex in the street/some alleyway. It's hotter than going to your house or your mom's house.

Also keep in mind that you might have "bad nights" at times. I get them all the time, where my "awesome" nights aren't consistent.

And I used to be afraid to even ENTER a club! I'd drive for like 45 minutes to an hour to get there and then wuss out.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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MillionBillionaire said:
I am predicting massive success on my next outing.. Solo and 4 hours, not worry about getting kicked out because of stupid wingman.

I wish I had my own place again. I am back living with my mother but I have a decent car.
+1 Rep

Come back and tell us about your experience regardless of whether it is positive or negative. It is good to read field posts rather than the usual "so...there is this girl at this place, how do I get her?" kind of posts. Lastly, consider posting your age below your username so that we can give you more appropriate advice.
 

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Robyn923b said:
+1 Rep

Come back and tell us about your experience regardless of whether it is positive or negative. It is good to read field posts rather than the usual "so...there is this girl at this place, how do I get her?" kind of posts. Lastly, consider posting your age below your username so that we can give you more appropriate advice.
Thanks for the props and the advice, I enabled my age to be shown. I'm almost 30 ... I wish I knew this stuff when I was in grade school :D

I just went out and did a day game number close at a subway.. I made a thread about it.

Wow what a weekend :)
 
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