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SEPT. 6, 2017
The Ambition Collision
By Lisa Miller

Illustration: Anna Parini
What is this midlife crisis among the 30-year-olds I know? Millennial women — at least those who reside in professional bubbles — seem to have it all. They are better educated, more prosperous, less encumbered by cultural expectations than any previous generation of women. They delay marriage (if they marry at all) and children (if they choose to conceive). They can own or rent. They can save or spend. These women have been on familiar terms with their ambitions all their lives — raised by careful parents to aim high (millennial women are likelier than their male peers to have professional jobs, to be managers, and to work in finance), and tutored by their cultural icons to perform their empowerment, and never submit. You know, “Bow down, bitches,” as they say.
So why are the well-employed, ambitious 30-year-olds of my acquaintance feeling so adrift, as discontented as the balding midlife sad sacks whose cliché dissatisfactions made Updike rich? The women complain of the enervating psychic effects of the professional treadmill as white-collar piecework and describe their dread as they contemplate bleak futures — decade after decade, they imagine, unfulfilled. After a lifetime of saying ‘yes’ to their professional hunger — these are the opportunity-seizers, the list-makers, the ascendant females, weaned on Lean In — they’ve lost it, like a child losing grasp of a helium balloon. Grief-stricken, they are baffled too, for they have always been propelled by their drive. They were the ones who were supposed to run stuff — who as girls imagined themselves leaving the airport in stylish trench coats, hailing a taxi with one hand while holding their cell in the other.












Now, “there’s no vision,” one woman said to me. “Nothing solid,” said another. Limp, desperate, they fantasize about quitting their good jobs and moving home to Michigan. They murmur about purpose, about the concrete satisfactions of baking a loaf of bread or watching a garden grow. One young woman I know dreams about leaving her consulting job, which takes her to Dubai and Prague, to move back home and raise a bunch of kids. Another, an accountant with corner-office aspirations, has decided to “phone it in” for a few years while she figures out what she wants to do. Mostly, though, these women don’t bail out. They are too responsible, and too devoted to their wavering dreams. They stay put, diligently working, ordering Seamless and waiting for something — anything — to reignite them, to convince them that their wanting hasn’t abandoned them for good. Any goal would do, one woman told me: a child, a dog — “even a refrigerator.” People have been motivated by less.
Get a grip, I want to tell them, for I am old enough to be, if not their mother then their world-weary aunt. Who ever said that work should be the be-all? You work for money. The money you earn pays the rent. You are the very, very lucky few, in possession of the jobs and apartments that every tier-one college student wants. But the more I listen, the more I think I hear in these young women’s voices the echo of something familiar — the complaints of a long-ago generation but in reverse. The female dissatisfaction chronicled by Betty Friedan in The Feminine Mystique was prompted by a widespread awakening to the bull**** promises of domestic happiness, manufactured by culture to make female containment look good. Now another bull**** promise has taken its place, and another generation is waking up. The men in charge are still in charge. It is impossible for women to continue to have faith in a vision of their own empowerment, when that empowerment is, in fact, a pose. It is not true that a gleaming kitchen floor is the key to female satisfaction. And “Bow down, bitches” is a lie.



The myth of female empowerment has always been on a collision course with the reality, but until relatively recently working females took this understanding for granted.
Even with divorce rapey, girl power, victimhood, the riding the CC crater smv, and crazy cat ladies by 30 post wall.


There's a reason why low in agreeableness and high in conscienceness, risk taker will Trump effect.

Its why women want socialism, basket weaving degree, and degrees in left handed puppetry.

You can't have it all. I have no sympathy.


Does anybody have tissue to dry her tears?

BRB guys, new girls are turning 18 19 20 21 everyday.

 
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Lots of the talk about women hitting 30 is all bottom feeder cope material. Most sane adults, men or women, in there 30's want to settle down. Bagging on women is good for the ego but at the end of the day it wont get you any closer to getting laid.
 

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Lots of the talk about women hitting 30 is all bottom feeder cope material. Most sane adults, men or women, in there 30's want to settle down. Bagging on women is good for the ego but at the end of the day it wont get you any closer to getting laid.
Not an argument.

Top form smv or do not want.

Cucks play house with post cawk carousel.


What you are really defending is your inability to get hotter and younger.

Mad?
 

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Even with divorce rapey, girl power, victimhood, the riding the CC crater smv, and crazy cat ladies by 30 post wall.


There's a reason why low in agreeableness and high in conscienceness, risk taker will Trump effect.

Its why women want socialism, basket weaving degree, and degrees in left handed puppetry.

You can't have it all. I have no sympathy.


Does anybody have tissue to dry her tears?

BRB guys, new girls are turning 18 19 20 21 everyday.

The author speaks to a real condition for both men and women: You get to a point in your career when you ask yourself “Is that all there is?”.

But then in typical feminist fashion she proclaims that the problem is because men are still in charge.

Typical feminist BS.

-Augustus-
 
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Women aged 30-35 are probably the worst demographic a man looking for a decent woman can find.

They were raised as special snowflakes you go girl types onlike women older than them while they still had gentleman behaviour from men unlike girls born after them therefore didnt even need to adjust their behaviour.

You will hardly find more obnoxious women than those aged 30-35 right now, they behaved like cvnts while still being able to find good men to deal with so basically they had no limitation or counterbalance to their choices.

Younger girls are used to guys dropping them when they pass the limit while older women still had social control over their crappy behaviour and conseguences for wrong actions...mid 30s girls basically only found green lights everywhere.
 

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The author speaks to a real condition for both men and women: You get to a point in your career when you ask yourself “Is that all there is?”.

But then in typical feminist fashion she proclaims that the problem is because men are still in charge.

Typical feminist BS.

-Augustus-
The truth is that, people realize they pissed away time playing real life monopoly.

The fun fact being, men go internal and rationalize. Some get zeroed out post divorce rape.

Women here blame men for their short comings.

The student debt bubble in America is over trillion owed by women.
 

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The truth is that, people realize they pissed away time playing real life monopoly.

The fun fact being, men go internal and rationalize. Some get zeroed out post divorce rape.

Women here blame men for their short comings.

The student debt bubble in America is over trillion owed by women.
You dont know how.many women 33+ i see getting desperate and wanting kids all of a sudden.
I got 2 friend with recent gf around that age group both very successful career wise and now facing their upcoming doom of having no babies.
They realize too late that having a career is not what its hype up to be.
I would not like to be their bf because there is a very good chance that im just a sperm bank for them and once they have some babies then divorce rape me later on.


Like all things their ego cant accept that they cant have it all so to protect themself they blame it on men being childish or immature because they al want younger better looking women.

They have been sold a lie and now for most its too late to recover.
 

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You dont know how.many women 33+ i see getting desperate and wanting kids all of a sudden.
I got 2 friend with recent gf around that age group both very successful career wise and now facing their upcoming doom of having no babies.
They realize too late that having a career is not what its hype up to be.
I would not like to be their bf because there is a very good chance that im just a sperm bank for them and once they have some babies then divorce rape me later on.


Like all things their ego cant accept that they cant have it all so to protect themself they blame it on men being childish or immature because they al want younger better looking women.

They have been sold a lie and now for most its too late to recover.
They have not been sold a lie, they got a lie presented to them and they decided to embrace it cause it was entertaining in that moment.

It takes two to tango as much as it takes a greedy victim to join a ponzi scheme.

Same thing with betas on a 10 yrs dry spell who suddenly find a woman (wall approaching) that finds them "the real deal" after all those "jerks" they dated till that moment.
 
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Women believe early in life that the things that make men happy will make them happy. They see all the strong masculine traits that successful men possess, that they themselves are attracted to and they adopt those traits to the best of their ability.

What they are clueless about is masculine traits in a female is extraordinarily off putting and repulsive to 95% of all men. Once they realize this in their mid to late 30's they've adopted these traits for so many damn years they can't stop, or they find it too hard to embrace their own femininity.

Consecutively they realize their career, success and making money doesn't do sh!t to make them happy and that men don't place much value on those things when dating. On the contrary (in a horrified realization) they realize it makes them quite miserable and their left scratching their heads wondering how they got duped for so long. The panic sets in. They can no longer compete against younger more fertile woman so they get bitter or they get cats. This is the cat lady nebula...
 

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Women believe early in life that the things that make men happy will make them happy. They see all the strong masculine traits that successful men possess, that they themselves are attracted to and they adopt those traits to the best of their ability.

What they are clueless about is masculine traits in a female is extraordinarily off putting and repulsive to 95% of all men. Once they realize this in their mid to late 30's they've adopted these traits for so many damn years they can't stop, or they find it too hard to embrace their own femininity.

Consecutively they realize their career, success and making money doesn't do sh!t to make them happy and that men don't place much value on those things when dating. On the contrary (in a horrified realization) they realize it makes them quite miserable and their left scratching their heads wondering how they got duped for so long. The panic sets in. They can no longer compete against younger more fertile woman so they get bitter or they get cats. This is the cat lady nebula...
Agree on that but not quite sure they "get it" in the end, their ability to genuinely wash away their mistakes or simply being wrong is mindblowing.

Their biggest mistake is to confuse value with dominance, in their head being put in charge through quotas makes them valuable 360 degrees.
 

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Agree on that but not quite sure they "get it" in the end, their ability to genuinely wash away their mistakes or simply being wrong is mindblowing.

Their biggest mistake is to confuse value with dominance, in their head being put in charge through quotas makes them valuable 360 degrees.
While us men sit back and watch the cognitive dissonance tear apart what they think SHOULD BE with what ACTUALLY IS. And the ensuring cascade of rationalizing why IT'S NOT. Quite hilarious but tragic at the same time.
 

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Not an argument.

Top form smv or do not want.

Cucks play house with post cawk carousel.


What you are really defending is your inability to get hotter and younger.

Mad?
I'm only disappointed in seeing these type of post.
 

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Women over 28 are good lays but absolutely miserable to deal with.
Wtf are you on about? Absolute bliss to deal with. Objectively so.

The truth is that, people realize they pissed away time playing real life monopoly.

The fun fact being, men go internal and rationalize. Some get zeroed out post divorce rape.

Women here blame men for their short comings.

The student debt bubble in America is over trillion owed by women.
I currently live in a very very nice and old-fashioned part of England. The other day, the church bells were ringing, a couple had got married. They ring the bells to tell everyone in the village. And good on them, I say. This is rare though lol.

I've been in that church before for some occasions. It's so historic that they even have leper holes.

It did make me think how much things like family and marriage have been eroded in such a short time.

And I do believe that the essence of your shtick is a response to feminism. Which is in some part just (and valid, as I've field tested it quite thoroughly) . Though it drags one down to the level somewhat.

Perhaps one should feel a bit uncomfortable at adapting to something that is quite clearly abnormal.

Their biggest mistake is to confuse value with dominance, in their head being put in charge through quotas makes them valuable 360 degrees.
There's a thread that has been trending on here for weeks of a very low-value woman talking the biggest load of trash to the entire place.

Wondering where the bigmouths of this thread (and I can pick out at least 5) were for that?

But it was against the social value of that context. Hence you don't have much to say in that context.

And I notice that none of you are English, which fascinates me.
 
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There's a thread that has been trending on here for weeks of a very low-value woman talking the biggest load of trash to the entire place.

Wondering where the bigmouths of this thread (and I can pick out at least 5) were for that?

But it was against the social value of that context. Hence you don't have much to say in that context.

And I notice that none of you are English, which fascinates me.
Im afraid I miss your point?
 

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You dont know how.many women 33+ i see getting desperate and wanting kids all of a sudden.
I got 2 friend with recent gf around that age group both very successful career wise and now facing their upcoming doom of having no babies.
They realize too late that having a career is not what its hype up to be.
I would not like to be their bf because there is a very good chance that im just a sperm bank for them and once they have some babies then divorce rape me later on.


Like all things their ego cant accept that they cant have it all so to protect themself they blame it on men being childish or immature because they al want younger better looking women.

They have been sold a lie and now for most its too late to recover.
I remember a post wall woman called me old once then, I got picked up by a hot young girl. The post wall woman had a hissy fit. It was hilarious. Stomping her feet like w child. It was funny since she's older then me. By a lot lol.

Its ****ed. It's the reality meets the road and the veil of egalitarian equalism is decimated. All things are not equal.
 

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Women believe early in life that the things that make men happy will make them happy. They see all the strong masculine traits that successful men possess, that they themselves are attracted to and they adopt those traits to the best of their ability.

What they are clueless about is masculine traits in a female is extraordinarily off putting and repulsive to 95% of all men. Once they realize this in their mid to late 30's they've adopted these traits for so many damn years they can't stop, or they find it too hard to embrace their own femininity.

Consecutively they realize their career, success and making money doesn't do sh!t to make them happy and that men don't place much value on those things when dating. On the contrary (in a horrified realization) they realize it makes them quite miserable and their left scratching their heads wondering how they got duped for so long. The panic sets in. They can no longer compete against younger more fertile woman so they get bitter or they get cats. This is the cat lady nebula...
Ian Flemming wrote the 007 series. In Russia with love, the only girl to not sleep with bond was ashamed of her kill count (3). Women follow whatever cuck culture pedals. If stay at home moms were the norm and celebrated, women in the masses would be in the kitchen making sandwiches.

Jurassic world portrayed the following. Dont need a man. Girl power skank. Dinosaurrs go nuts and shes back in thThe kitchen making sandwiches and hiding with children as The man handles biz.
 
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