You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Cops doesn't live and breath military 24/hrs, 365 days a week in a mini-civilization of the military armed forces. They go home to a regular normal life after 8-10 hours of work.MtnMan said:i banged a chick who was a cop a few times, she was quite feminine and was very happy to get the c0ck. She was very eager to please too. Obviously cop is different than military, but there are similarities.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
good point.GotED? said:Cops doesn't live and breath military 24/hrs, 365 days a week in a mini-civilization of the military armed forces. They go home to a regular normal life after 8-10 hours of work.
It is not the same.
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What kind of female wants to go through basic training instead of raise a family? Answer:an AW that wants to wh0re around/ daddy issues so wants to boss men around/act like a man.
To be fair there are plenty of jobs in the military that isn't about bossing men around/doing a man's job. The medical field, what she's going into, is something that plenty of females do in the civilian world.Think about why a woman would want to do a man's inherent job?? This is an exertion of masculinity and feminism at its worst. I am not judging about one's right to protect their country - this is purely from the standpoint of is a woman truly feminine and relationship material or not.
Yeah these are her qualities now and I'll be pissed if the military fvcks it up.i banged a chick who was a cop a few times, she was quite feminine and was very happy to get the c0ck. She was very eager to please too. Obviously cop is different than military, but there are similarities.
Granted, I am based overseas so ANY service women can be DEPLOYED at anytime downrange near combat zones. Also overseas, lower ranking military has to stay on the base in dormitories.JoeMarron said:To be fair there are plenty of jobs in the military that isn't about bossing men around/doing a man's job. The medical field, what she's going into, is something that plenty of females do in the civilian world.
I see. I don't see how anyone can take monogamy seriously though if it can only work because there are no other options. I guess it's just a matter of if I chose wisely or not. I honestly don't think I could've stacked the deck in my favor any better. She certainly isn't an attention wh0re/chick with daddy issues, quite the opposite actually. She was practically a virgin when we met, has few male friends, has a sane family with traditional values, not hot enough to become entitled but still cute, cooks, cleans and is a sex fiend for me, always puts in more effort into the relationship than I do...I mean damn, what more could I possibly look for to ensure that a chick is wife-able? If anything this'll be an interesting experience, I'll keep you guys posted.GotED? said:Granted, I am based overseas so ANY service women can be DEPLOYED at anytime downrange near combat zones. Also overseas, lower ranking military has to stay on the base in dormitories.
These facts are different if you are at home in the U.S., where you don't need to live on the base and don't get into combat zones.
But the fact is, temptation - a woman is surrounded by 1 to 10 men ratio working all day long. Is like, if you worked at a women's department stores soley for women's clothing. You don't think you are going to be tempted??
The fact is who you spend time with the longest draws the highest probability of attraction. That is why so many people at work get into messy situations dating co-workers. You spend 1/3 of your life together literally in the same place daily.
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Good Luck to you JM (best of wishes really)JoeMarron said:I see. I don't see how anyone can take monogamy seriously though if it can only work because there are no other options. I guess it's just a matter of if I chose wisely or not. I honestly don't think I could've stacked the deck in my favor any better. She certainly isn't an attention wh0re/chick with daddy issues, quite the opposite actually. She was practically a virgin when we met, has few male friends, has a sane family with traditional values, not hot enough to become entitled but still cute, cooks, cleans and is a sex fiend for me, always puts in more effort into the relationship than I do...I mean damn, what more could I possibly look for to ensure that a chick is wife-able? If anything this'll be an interesting experience, I'll keep you guys posted.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Thanks man. I'll go ahead and start brushing up on my AMOG'ing skills. Seriously though if she can't handle a bit of temptation, especially while being with someone as awesome as me then fvck her..I'll move on. Like I stated in other thread I really have nothing to lose. She has shown that she's worthy of me so far and since this is the only way the relationship can continue I'll go ahead and give her a chance.GotED? said:Good Luck to you JM (best of wishes really)
I would find myself difficult in your situation since I am pretty much IN the military but not at the same time.
It is the worse situation possible to be bound to a woman joining the military. A woman is amongst some of the worst alpha mentality workplace anywhere - the military. Ego run rampant, the need to assert your masculinity is second to none. Sh!t - betas go into military just to get the beta-sh!t kicked out of them. You put women in that mix?? Damn they are gonna be turned on and puzzy dripping wet seeing muscular, fit, lean men (not all are beta, trust me - some are truly alpha that wants to go on warpath to serve their country and kill a million Talibans). You got the fighter pilots, special forces, all in the mix - just like high school jocks get together, a GIANT get together.
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The only time she's going to be firing guns is in basic training. The military isn't just about super male alpha sh!t. There are plenty of careers in the military that are dominated by women in the civilian world.Would you want to paint women's nails and gossip for a living or arrange flowers at a wedding?
Why would a woman want to fire guns?
They are broken. Its un-natural.