“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Military Grade Hypergamy

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Military Grade Hypergamy

Thanks for letting join the group first off. I think I have a lot to contribute, since I am on my 3rd marriage. Wish I had this knowledge 10 years, because if I did I would not have gotten married again. But this story I am about to tell you, came across my desk when I was in-between books. Those books were the “Rational Male” by Tomassi and “The Unplugged Alpha” By Richard Cooper. Let’s get to it!

So my ex co-worker and fellow retired army officer, let’s call her Dora. I haven’t talked to Dora in about 3 or 4 years. She is 47 years and for her age she is let’s say a solid 8 on the Hot Babe Scale. She retired from the army as a Major. Upon her retirement from the service she decided to start another career as a nurse. So, that means she is netting about 200K from her retirement and her nurse wages. She is married to regular guy who’s a truck driver who has never made as much as her. Average looking guy nothing exciting to report about him. They’ve been married about 15 years with two children, the oldest of the children is not his child. So fast forward to 2023, Dora attends our HBCU Homecoming and runs to my friend Bishop. Bishop is a retired LTC, matter of fact he MC’d my promotion ceremony when I was promoted from Major to LTC back in 2020. So we are all in the same ROTC friend group from college. Bishop is a retired LTC, that now works for Amazon, he’s fit, and nets about 300k annually. Charming guy and he’s the type that I can’t think of not one person that doesn’t like him. So Dora and Bishop have known each other for over 20 years, but nothing more than classmates from ROTC. Bishop a divorcee, starting flirting with her on this particular homecoming and they started a serious of trysts. He was living in Alabama, he would fly out her on occasion. Also they would make rendezvous’ in SC or NC.

I forgot to mention, this story was shared to me via Dora. So they have successful an open arrangement. In this instance it means it is open on his end and closed on her end, since she is no longer sleeping with her husband exclusively Bishop. So they decided to attend a gala at our school adjacently. Meaning she would go with her girlfriend, but they would sit at the same table with two people in between them, to throw off the scent so that no one would suspect anything. So her husband knows something is up. The university broadcasted the gala on their Youtube Channel. Husband take upon himself to watch the broadcast and its clear as day they were sitting front and center. A blind man could see their body language.

After this husband goes ape $hit crazy finds Bishop’s number and starts to call and harass him. Also lashes out at Dora, proceeds to tell her kids and anybody that would listen. Dora reasoning on why she started ****ing Bishop was; her husband was not, handling business financially, not trying to improve himiself, and lazy. A prefect stage for her to go running to hop on another man’s _ick. So the final straw for Bishop was when Husband called his brother. He proceeded to block her and never speak to her again.

So in 2025 Bishop marries another woman. Dora is distraught because she risked her marriage and lost it for him. Crazy part is she is glad the husband gone, but she basically an alpha widow for Bishop. If he calls her today she will with zero hesitation drop those panties in an instance.
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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@THE OX HTX "...I am on my 3rd marriage. Wish I had this knowledge 10 years, because if I did I would not have gotten married again"

That first union collapsing faster than Freddie Prinze Jr's career, once The 2000s were upon us, didn't persuade you to find another hobby, eh... Such perseverance is, in it's own twisted right, endearing
 

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You mentioned HBCU - Historically Black College/University - so I will presume that you had been very blue-pilled by your church-oriented community in your hometown, hence your tickling of the dragon's tail so many times (3).

Yes, Dora is Bishop's alpha widow. Dora's husband got Cuckmated.
 

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@THE OX HTX "...I am on my 3rd marriage. Wish I had this knowledge 10 years, because if I did I would not have gotten married again"

That first union collapsing faster than Freddie Prinze Jr's career, once The 2000s were upon us, didn't persuade you to find another hobby, eh... Such perseverance is, in it's own twisted right, endearing
Funnily enough I also find this somehow way more interesting.

OP ,why did you say you wouldn't get married again with your "newfound knowledge "?
 

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You mentioned HBCU - Historically Black College/University - so I will presume that you had been very blue-pilled by your church-oriented community in your hometown, hence your tickling of the dragon's tail so many times (3).

Yes, Dora is Bishop's alpha widow. Dora's husband got Cuckmated.
Thanks for the new word CUCKMATED … you’re 100% correct raised in church in SC. Take it from me don’t marry a modern woman.
 

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I got married in 2020… I didn’t get fully understand red pill until late 2022… but I hope arm young men… especially my son with the truth
What specifically makes being married something you don't like that much?
 

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I got married in 2020… I didn’t get fully understand red pill until late 2022… but I hope arm young men… especially my son with the truth
Your first divorce didn't give you cause to question the ideas about love and romance we've received out Disney movies and Rom Coms? Long before anyone was mistaking a pop corn movie from The 90s for reality, men have been encouraging one another to stop romanticizing women
 

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What specifically makes being married something you don't like that much?
My wife’s father is cuck, beta, AFC & a simp. So she has no point of reference when dealing an alpha. No red pill influencer has properly addressed a beta father and the dangers on getting with a women raised by a ***** azz man. Also the dynamics of maintaining frame is tiring asf. When married to a modern woman there is no letting your guard and relaxing… because she **** test you constantly and you have to have BALLs the size of bowling balls to avoid being turned into politically correct beta boy …. And most of the risk of divorce
 

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@THE OX HTX "Also the dynamics of maintaining frame is tiring asf"

Yeah, being Melvin Williams
is, in some respects, much tougher than being just another corner boy. As men, we regularly have to ask ourselves:

"Am I going to

-Behave like one of those twits at The Women's March, who trades exclusively in chanting empty slogans yet hasn't articulated tangible goals, much less put together a viable strategy for achieving them

OR

-Spend 2% of my time tops griping over how tough life is, and the other 98% doing what's required to succeed?"
 

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My wife’s father is cuck, beta, AFC & a simp. So she has no point of reference when dealing an alpha. No red pill influencer has properly addressed a beta father and the dangers on getting with a women raised by a ***** azz man. Also the dynamics of maintaining frame is tiring asf. When married to a modern woman there is no letting your guard and relaxing… because she **** test you constantly and you have to have BALLs the size of bowling balls to avoid being turned into politically correct beta boy …. And most of the risk of divorce
This is extremely insightful and I HOPE a lesson to all men who have this pipe dream that marriage is all sunshine and rainbows.

What does "constantly holding frame " look like? And /or how do you get sh1ttested specifically?
 

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never ask permission for anything from her never….. I’m into guns… I let her KNOW I’m going and it
This is extremely insightful and I HOPE a lesson to all men who have this pipe dream that marriage is all sunshine and rainbows.

What does "constantly holding frame " look like? And /or how do you get sh1ttested specifically?
A little background about my wife and me. She’s black, but not a Starkeesha, she’s like Candance Owens but she likes black men. I am a black retired Army LTC (black republican) . Nevertheless she’s black and liberal/ sometimes a feminist.

Stand your ground and always lead with NO, no matter the question

Always call her out on her bull**** immediately

Demonstrate that you your dominance every chance you get

I am 46 with a V taper always (women and men comment on my physique) and I make sure to share that with her. When I go out with her friend group I make sure, I look my best. Her friend talk about my shape to her when I am not even there

Also I have multiple hobbies, working on cars, guns and constantly working out

I have goals even at this age.

Wherewithal, with my retirement and my salary I am net about 165K

This is my formula and I am not comprising ****, I talk that **** and I walk that ****
 

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OP, you appear to be an instant hit here! I'll keep an eye out! I admire your candor already. Not bad coming from brass in my book. (LOL- I just had to.)
 
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