"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

Read more...

MILF Invites Me Back To Her Office

E

evesman

Don Juan
Joined
Jun 14, 2008
Messages
91
Reaction score
2
Went to the doctor's office to get a check up (sports related). The person who saw me was a nurse. A good looking MILF/Cougar in her mid forties or so. She was very tall, tanned, had voluptuous curly black locks, and a huge buxom which she made no effort to hide whatsoever. Very nice body, and some nice black 4"+ high heels, swinging in front of me.

Anyway, I went through a brief checkup, complaining about joint pain, and got prescribed some meds. We talked briefly after, since it was a slow day, and I told her that I was concerned about future joint pain, etc.

She told me not to worry, since I was "so young." She said I should enjoy myself, "have fun", and not have any worries. Then, she invited me back to her office, to "hang out" whenever I felt stressed out.

Should I have taken this as a literal invitation? I have her office number and email, which I asked for.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

Read more...

J

jophil28

Master Don Juan
Joined
Nov 18, 2006
Messages
5,216
Reaction score
278
Location
Gold Coast. Aust.
evesman said:
She said I should enjoy myself, "have fun", and not have any worries. Then, she invited me back to her office, to "hang out" whenever I felt stressed out.

Should I have taken this as a literal invitation? I have her office number and email, which I asked for.
Click to expand...
She invited you to return to her office to relieve your "stress"... !

How much more of an invitation do you need ?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

Read more...

C

C-quenced

Master Don Juan
Joined
Mar 15, 2008
Messages
574
Reaction score
62
Location
Purgatory
Went to the doctor's office to get a check up (sports related). The person who saw me was a nurse. A good looking MILF/Cougar in her mid forties or so. She was very tall, tanned, had voluptuous curly black locks, and a huge buxom which she made no effort to hide whatsoever. Very nice body, and some nice black 4"+ high heels, swinging in front of me.

Anyway, I went through a brief checkup, complaining about joint pain, and got prescribed some meds. We talked briefly after, since it was a slow day, and I told her that I was concerned about future joint pain, etc.

She told me not to worry, since I was "so young." She said I should enjoy myself, "have fun", and not have any worries. Then, she invited me back to her office, to "hang out" whenever I felt stressed out.

Should I have taken this as a literal invitation? I have her office number and email, which I asked for.

Doesn't everyone wish something like this happened to them? No offense but you sound pretty fake. Almost like the intro to a porn movie or something.
 
6

6-heads lewis

Master Don Juan
Joined
Aug 27, 2006
Messages
635
Reaction score
7
Make sure you have a back-up though. If you go there expecting sex, and it turns out she was only flirting, that's a big embarrassment.

Have a back-up conversation to cover yourself.
 
D

DonJuan11

Master Don Juan
Joined
Aug 16, 2007
Messages
1,667
Reaction score
35
evesman said:
Went to the doctor's office to get a check up (sports related). The person who saw me was a nurse. A good looking MILF/Cougar in her mid forties or so. She was very tall, tanned, had voluptuous curly black locks, and a huge buxom which she made no effort to hide whatsoever. Very nice body, and some nice black 4"+ high heels, swinging in front of me.

Anyway, I went through a brief checkup, complaining about joint pain, and got prescribed some meds. We talked briefly after, since it was a slow day, and I told her that I was concerned about future joint pain, etc.

She told me not to worry, since I was "so young." She said I should enjoy myself, "have fun", and not have any worries. Then, she invited me back to her office, to "hang out" whenever I felt stressed out.

Should I have taken this as a literal invitation? I have her office number and email, which I asked for.
Click to expand...
Mid 40's? That's venturing into GILF territory.

-------------------------------------------------------------

"Son, if you really want something in life, you have to work for it. Now quiet, they're about to announce the lottery numbers!" - Homer Simpson
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

Read more...

You must log in or register to reply here.
22 Rules for Massive Success With Women
Top