"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

Read more...

MILF Help

TheDon1

Don Juan
Joined
Feb 15, 2010
Messages
13
Reaction score
0
Riddle me this:

I am a young guy early 20s and live alone. I met a M I L F online and got her hot for me. She caved and gave me her number. I was on top of it:

Me:"What kind of food you like?"
Her:"Italian"
Me:"Great, pick some up on your way to my place."

It went on like this and I pressured her so that she would decide to come over or have me over. She was even sending me pictures from her phone.

I told her I had plans for her and me for February 14 and she did not respond. (don't worry I had other fishing lines out with other girls in case that happened.)

We have not met in person, only spoken on phone,txt,IM,email. But shes a m i l f talking to a boy, its obvious what she wants. This is going to be the first milf I bag.

I've been told I am too quick, smooth, aggressive whatever.

Wait it out and show her I'm housebroken or keep the pressure?

(Admin, please move this to proper place)
 
Last edited:

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

Read more...

COD

Master Don Juan
Joined
Mar 19, 2006
Messages
1,197
Reaction score
30
VIRTUAL (texts, IM, phone calls, emails, cams, etc) have an effect on people, until you actually meet them.........nothing is concrete.

U appear to have the tactics without having the experience............more to seduction than "bagging" a milf.
 

teacha

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Nov 16, 2009
Messages
411
Reaction score
141
Location
wall street
i think you should just chill out now, focus on other things/girls and just wait for her to come around. when she does, dont dissapoint.

btw why did you have to make plans with her on valentine's day when you haven't even fukked her let alone meet her in person?

Also, don't put a lot of emphasis on online dating since some of them bitches just love the fantasy and when it comes to meeting up comes, they get cold feet.
 

TheDon1

Don Juan
Joined
Feb 15, 2010
Messages
13
Reaction score
0
"VIRTUAL (texts, IM, phone calls, emails, cams, etc) have an effect on people, until you actually meet them.........nothing is concrete."

You are correct, and I've had that in mind. "You may like to tease boys, but I'm not impressed" is my attitude, I called her bluff and thats why she got interested.

"why did you have to make plans with her on valentine's day when you haven't even fukked her let alone meet her in person?"

To put pressure, let her know that time and my patience is running out. About online dating, the library is an alternate hunting ground.

Thanks for the feedback.
 

Ddon1

Don Juan
Joined
Feb 16, 2010
Messages
18
Reaction score
0
"U appear to have the tactics without having the experience"

With m il fs yes. If you want to get into detail, there is a difference even between races in m i l fs. I have approached mostly American ones at bars and they act like hot s h i t and let you pet their ego.

This one is latin, and a mix of cultural diversity and change of my approach did it. I'll wait for her to get ahold of me. let you know what happens.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

Read more...

Ddon1

Don Juan
Joined
Feb 16, 2010
Messages
18
Reaction score
0
Just got an email from her apologizing for not being available in the last couple of days. Im omitting the details (the usual blabber). She caved. Pondering my next move.

Thoughts?
 

TheDon1

Don Juan
Joined
Feb 15, 2010
Messages
13
Reaction score
0
Well your gangster slang ("yo", "tho","son"?) says much about you.

Of course not cutesy stuff. If she comes over, as soon as inside, grab by waist, kiss hard and grab a tit. That upfront for you?
 

Ddon1

Don Juan
Joined
Feb 16, 2010
Messages
18
Reaction score
0
Nah, don't listen to that stuff.

Unless I'm getting with a Latin girl who listens to that trash, then I'm the expert in the field of goofy clothes, hand gestures and "music."

(don't wear the clothes though, gotta draw the line somewhere)
 

thedude4242

Master Don Juan
Joined
Sep 7, 2009
Messages
569
Reaction score
4
well if she never responded to the valentines day thing, you probably scared her off when she just wants to have some fun.

J-KWON also kepted it hood when he did the second single "hood hop"
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

Read more...

Top