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mild pain in epididymis after masturbation-kinda scared

suaveplayer

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hey guys,

im 18, male, virgin. masturbate about once or twice per week. recently during mb, i notice that there is a slight pain in my left testicle. it is annoying but not unbearable, and it goes away after i finish. after testing it, i think my left epididymis is swolen. the thing is it feels perfectly fine if i dont mb, and its been like this for about 1 month now. should i be concerned? is it epididymitis (mild one perhaps?)
 

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It depends. If you go a relatively long time between ejaculations (e.g., could be as little as 3-4 days), then there is a lot of sperm to move, and you could feel some strong sensations there (which could be interpreted as mild pain.) Try doing it once a day and see if it any different.

The epididymitis is not a big problem, but testicular cancer is. It's always a good idea to see a physician if a strange pain erupts.
 

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^^ tried it 2 days in a row. not as much but the pain is definitely still there. as i said, its really mild tho and its just annoying. should i see a doctor? or would it go away?

also how could i have contracted epiditymitis?
 

Cry For Love

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It really is better safe than sorry with that stuff man, testicle cancer can kill you, you should get it checked up, even if it turns out to be a false alarm, its worth the waste of time it takes to reassure confidence
 
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