"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Mike's Look & Hairstyle

Mike32ct

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I've been meaning to post a pic to get some feedback. I will keep the pics on here for a limited time for privacy reasons, maybe a few hours or a day tops.

http://www.flickr.com/photos/75217535@N06/

The picture on the right (with the black shirt) was me in late 2010. Actually, that setup worked pretty well for me game-wise.

With my hair thinning, I've gotten away from just spiking the front up and decided to try going back to the all messy look. The picture on the left is me tonight after a hair cut. (Or I could possibly do a more wet look with gel, but that might be too try hard and would look more balding.)

Ignore the cheesy pink shirt. That is just an old shirt that I wore in case they got color on it. My hair might seem a little too dark, but the color will fade in to something close to my natural very dark brown in a week or so.

I also let some 5 o'clock shadow to undo a bit of nice guy-ness.

But overall, what do you guys (and girls) think?

I'm 5'10" 175# with a slender build, but am toning up.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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garruk

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agreed, new look is better. nothing wrong with the pink shirt either.
 

btownbuck2012

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you're a good lookin' mo foe. I think i recall you posted something a long time ago about how u didn't even kiss a girl until you were 27? Hard to believe after looking at those pics. NO HOMO.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I agree with Dust 2 Dust on the sideburns. The second picture is the best, and you look good.
 

Mike32ct

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Thanks everybody. I'm flattered.

Rubato & Dust 2 Dust -- By 2nd pic, do you mean the new pic on the left or older one on the right? I want to make sure I follow.

The sideburns thing is a good idea. I'll have to grow them out some more. I'm greying in that area, but I can get them colored with my hair fairly easily.


btownbuck2012 -- Thanks. Yes it is true that I didn't kiss a girl until 27. Looking back, it was a combination of factors such as being sheltered, having no confidence, and not really trying.


All --- I'll probably leave the pics up until late tomorrow morning, and then remove them from Flicker.

Thanks again.

Any other comments are welcome.
 

HalfAddict

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Now, man, take it from me. If you want to rock that pomp you have to fix that **** up a bit. Just so happens I keep enough grease in my hair to lubricate a chevy big block.

Start with this.
http://www.hawleywoods.com/pd-hawleywoods-layrite-super-hold-pomade-4oz-can.cfm

Worth every ****ing cent by the way, not crappy like gel, not invulnerable like murrays superior and your chick won't whine about it greasing up her pillows.

Maker it shine with a couple dabs of this.
http://www.pomade-shop.eu/Royal-Crown-Hair-Dressing-8-oz/en

Carry a comb and look in the mirror a lot. (not necessary but feels good man)


This stuff smells effing great, just picked some up, makes you smell like ya just left the barber.

http://www.hawleywoods.com/pd_hawleywoods_no_9_aftershave_5_oz_bottle.cfm
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Rubirosa

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I don't like the hair just shooting for the sky....I think you should comb it over towards the side somewhat. I feel that a longer "Don Draper" haircut with sideburns would look good. I really dislike the "wings" you have going in the pink shirt pic.
Try Don Draper
http://www.tvfanatic.com/gallery/don-draper-pic/
 

Dust 2 Dust

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I thought you looked better in the right side picture. You could still use the left pic, but spiked hair without sideburns doesn't look good on you or any men for the most part.
 
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