ElStud said:
Really, I've considered this and I really think it's important that I just find myself and working on improving inner game, than getting laid right now. Seriously though, the reason why I've started just not caring about broads is because, I can be having the most fun at a party and girls won't be interested. Despite that I'm still having fun.
For example, this Halloween party tonight. I'm having fun like hell, but then I go up to this one set and she's acting all disinterested. The part that was actually FUN about the party had nothing to do with girls, it was the dancing and the club atmosphere. But really, I'm forgetting about getting laid for a while since it's more important for me to improve my inner game, than get some chicks.
It's like you know, if I get a chick I want a chick who can like me for who I am and if these girls don't want to that's not my problem. It's almost like, I have more fun in life, WITHOUT girls. It's almost like their loss. But yeah, I'm taking a break from this stuff for a while.
You and I are going through very similar feelings, which I will explain.
Yesterday my friend called me and he literally said he wanted to sarge the Tanger Outlets in Deer Park. So he comes over, comes in my house, we talk about our game the whole time, browse through this site a little bit, the usual.
We drive about 35 minutes to get the the Tanger Outlets, talking about approaches the whole time. No radio on in the car.
Once we get there, I realize the place is lame. It's dull, empty, and while it's 2 weeks old it didn't look like anything special. However, I figured that while I was there I'd make the best of it, so I decided to buy a new casual outfit, some new jeans and a T-shirt.
We enter Pacsun, and I am friendly with the 3 females working there, and I have them open up the fitting room for me. I try on clothes, I like them, and decide to buy them. So I go back in the fitting room and change back to my clothes, and I hear my friend running the same old lame routine on these girls.
The girls, who are paid to be nice to him, are taking the bait as usual, but honestly I just wanted to have fun and shop and not try to sarge every damn set. So after I bought the clothes, I started changing back to the new clothes in the middle of the store. My friend was laughing, video taping it, I'm standing in the middle of the store in my boxers, not giving a f***. One girl is laughing, the other one suddenly becomes a b*tch and says "you need to leave. I just want you to complete the sale and leave." The girls apparently never seen a guy in his boxers before...
I'm joking around the whole time, acting like nothing is unusual, saying things like "Thank you for your great customer service. Oh could you get my coat, I left it in the fitting room!" The woman actually got my coat for me. My friend is laughing and I'm just being completely silly.
Afterwards he said he couldn't believe I did that, and I told him "I really don't care. I don't need to impress every damn girl I come across. I just got my money's worth in that store. I had more fun. And I think I definitely don't have any approach anxiety."
The moral of the story is that sometimes I have more fun getting kicked out of stores than I do sarging in them. I am a kid at heart. I like to play practical jokes on employees, be silly, do stuff like that once in awhile. Granted, If I'm at a venue, I'm going to sarge, be on my best behavior. But we're shopping. I'm spending money here, I want my money's worth.
