"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

Read more...

mightve blew a one time deal, need to be slapped lol

dre007

Don Juan
Joined
May 31, 2007
Messages
45
Reaction score
1
ok so I will try to make this as short as possible but its pretty funny. u see my ex came back from college for winter break this week and I've been talking to her and gaming her and all her signs seem to be that she wants to mess around again. I'm down with this so she invites me for a movie night at her crib tonight but somethin comes up and I call it off. but to my surprise, plans changed cuz I was supposed to visit my boy in jersey city and he was busy so I called her up and tried to set up the movie thing at her house and she said I could come over but 2 of her friends were there. so I'm like fvck it maybe her friends will leave early and that would isolate me with my ex gf and that would work out good.

so I get there and they are fvckin watching gay a$$ america's next smartest model, so I'm like ill wait a bit so they might leave but they don't. they keep blabbing about girl **** and I keep my hopes up for a good 45 mins but they still don't leave. I was about to pull my eyeballs out of their sockets. watchin that show is torture. so I bounce and tell my ex gf that its gettin late. the worst part was I definetly appeared to be uncomfortable and awkward chillen with them which was the worst possible thing that could happen and I might have blown my chance hookin up with my ex gf.

it was pure torture, a night of estrogen. I need to be slapped now for pullin a chump move like this. idk if this was my only shot but it seems like it. reactions guys....
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

Read more...

Randallpink83

Master Don Juan
Joined
Dec 17, 2006
Messages
587
Reaction score
4
Location
In the club/bars
haha this reminds me of that recent 'Capote' movie, "It was torture... pure torture". :p

Well you certainly could've been more positive about the situation. One thing is yeah you should have really been cool with it all, cause the ex DID tell you her friends would be there... Basically warning that nothing was gonna happen. Even though its great you held up hope and went anyhow, props for that.

But yeah, you were being negative... switch that to a positive viewpoint... Think of it as a learning , practice, or a challenge... Try and win all three of them over, have some fun! Maybe you could have worked some options with one of the girls you haven't already fvcked.

Or at least you could have been more enjoyable company and got the friends approval and the ex's willingness for later.... But seems like you already know this.





...Think of every situation as a challenge. An absurd challenge... Think, "what could I do to fvck all three these girls right now?"... lol, not very realistic, but still possible... if you can think it, its possible... How would you have acted differently if you would have been gaming them all???

...btw whats so bad about Americas next top model? :cool:
 

dre007

Don Juan
Joined
May 31, 2007
Messages
45
Reaction score
1
hey thanks for the feedback randall pink,
just a few things I wanna point out, well first her two friends weren't that attractive, maybe HB 6.5 at most, so idk if I really wanted to hook up with them too. but anyways lol, another funny thing to point out that one of them kept on getting mad at this guy named doug who was supposedly tryin to go out with my ex gf's friend ann. he kept on txting her like an afc and my ex gf tried to give ann advice n all this bullsh*t about trying to play hard to get. haha it was a good laugh but I tried to play it off as calm as possible when listening to their antics of trying to "seduce" guys.

anymore feedback is welcome.
 
Top