“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Might get an arranged marriage

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Stop trolling....


U know whats up.....


Ur disgraceful.....

You dont even want to go out with dudes that can help you....


I offer again....
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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skinnyguy

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_sideways_ said:
Stop trolling....


U know whats up.....


Ur disgraceful.....

You dont even want to go out with dudes that can help you....


I offer again....
You just want to put pics of me on SoS. Go away troll
 

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It is possible u got a dyck up ur asz....and one.in.or around ur mouth....
 

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Why would i put a pic up.of.some.rum of the mill skinny india guy....lol

I could google image you lol

Boohoo...you were coddled....the fact is we need guys like u in society.


I need girls to crybon ur shoulders cuz i cant stand their babble.

Then where their done playing friendly they can come back to pound town.

You are necessary.
 

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skinnyguy said:
Probably. I was extremely coddled as a kid. Also never went out just studied while the white kids were smoking weed and having sex. El Payaso I normally disagree with you but you are spot on this time. I tried carving out a life for myself but I guess I'm still a mommas boy.
Perhaps the best way to get some fulfillment is to do all those things you felt you were never able to do as a kid. Go out and smoke weed till your lips burn off, get drunk till you pass out, hire prostitutes etc.
 

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You're extremely insecure and self conscious. It doesn't matter that you approach and ask women out, because you either go in thinking "oh, she'll probably just say no" or you're thinking "I'm doing everything by the book, she's GOT to say yes."

You should keep a natural flow and advance through a series of green lights. Get a red one, start again. Hesitate on green? Aaand it's red, start again. Don't take things personally, take it as a learning curve. You said you've read the bible and whatnot, but it's one thing knowing the stuff and being the stuff. I'm also of the opinion that your looks don't matter much - if they do, they maybe turn away 20% of women you like, and even if it's 80%, some of them are still willing. Or are you going to tell me that skinny Indian guys just don't get laid in the US?
 

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You're extremely insecure and self conscious. It doesn't matter that you approach and ask women out, because you either go in thinking "oh, she'll probably just say no" or you're thinking "I'm doing everything by the book, she's GOT to say yes."

You should keep a natural flow and advance through a series of green lights. Get a red one, start again. Hesitate on green? Aaand it's red, start again. Don't take things personally, take it as a learning curve. You said you've read the bible and whatnot, but it's one thing knowing the stuff and being the stuff. I'm also of the opinion that your looks don't matter much - if they do, they maybe turn away 20% of women you like, and even if it's 80%, some of them are still willing. Or are you going to tell me that skinny Indian guys just don't get laid in the US?
Let me reiterate. I can get laid, just not by HB 8+

This is what I'm looking for:

http://bit.ly/1CK4e1f

http://bit.ly/1topQcB

http://bit.ly/1pAkIRi

I've hung out with some real life PUA's but the girls they were gaming were ugly as fack. I've never seen anyone take home a 9 from the club.
 

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Why do you think they decline you? Looks? Race? Personality/character?

I can't recall a middle eastern guy, particularly Indian with a good looking chick other than Asians, unless he's 6foot+ but even then I havn't seen it last.

Also Belarus/Russia. Belarusians are some of the coolest people I've met.

Also the lone Indian guy will understandably have a hard time with women who are socially decent (HB7+), particularly those not familiar with you due to Indian stereotypes.

What do you look like? I'm middle eastern but I can see you putting women off from your personality on this forum (outside of this thread). And pics.

Also Belarus/Russia, Belarusians are some of the coolest people I've met.
 

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Its not a bad thing, the problem is wheather its socially acceptable currently where you live, and do you care about being accepted by society. But in the western world fixed marriages are not the norm nowadays, so I dont know what the rules are.

I know about these Kurdish people, if you want to get married, you go to a father with a virgin daughter, and pay him like 50 grand so you can have her.

Later, if she cheats and its proven, you have the right to return her to her father and hes obliged to give you your money back.

I mean its not a bad thing, depends on the culture, people who judge arranged marriages harshly are so narrow minded. From what I read here, over in USA marriages are pretty much arranged too, its just that they dont tell that to the groom :D
 

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I normally intrigue women all the time at bars and stuff but I'm normally leading the pack, and can't come off obvious because that triggers the creepy Indian guy sensor in their brains. Indians have a habbit of easily setting that off, understandably but you can't fault them for it.

When I go by myself usually I have to do something to prove I'm not Raj from bigbangtheory or Apu from 711 or just a lost middle eastern guy in a bar.

Also think of it like this, black men used to have a hard enough time pulling white women. These days you normally see black men pulling for two reasons or two types of chicks. The rebellious/mad white girl who wants a big black **** and believes it can't be found elsewhere. Or the girl of the Sophisticated black man's choosing <-- these guys I love, they break so many stereotypes, are normally creame of the crop and are wonderful to spend your time with.

From one desi to another, you gotta come of more white/American/alpha than the goray people. And not cave man I'm so macho like this forum generates most of the time but an actual leader. And a dangerous/dark side never hurts. Gotta have that intimidation.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Granted this does get me an affinity to pull crazy chicks more often than regular ones but I can't stand people with a closed mind.
 

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skinnyguy said:
Let me reiterate. I can get laid, just not by HB 8+

This is what I'm looking for:

http://bit.ly/1CK4e1f

http://bit.ly/1topQcB

http://bit.ly/1pAkIRi

I've hung out with some real life PUA's but the girls they were gaming were ugly as fack. I've never seen anyone take home a 9 from the club.
Are you kidding me you want your wife to look like THAT???

Are you 9? These are toys not women, the real beauty is in the imperfections, these girls had 5 + surgeries each + photoshop,

think of a girl as a piece of music. Usually, music is much like math, its organised, there is a sistem, notes, chords, progression, a frame and stuff that fits inside of it. But rarely, from time to time, the musician makes a mistake or a bunch of "mistakes" which sounds genial to a point where you have to play this part again and again until you can fully grasp the beauty of it.

Women are like that too. The beauty is not the fact that she fixed the crooked tooth and cut her nose, the beuty is exactly in the crooked tooth and the brave nose. Slightly out of proportion. So that whe you look at her from a special angle she seems kinda strange, but when she turns her head a little its all perfect. This is a true woman.

Srsly these girls disquist me, I dont even watch porn where the girls look like that.
 

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Its been over a year since the opening post, have you has the arranged marriage yet?
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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So you're rejecting all the other vagina in the world, because you can't bag a super-model?

That's like refusing to drive a car, because NASCAR wouldn't hire you as a driver.
 

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Bible_Belt said:
So you're rejecting all the other vagina in the world, because you can't bag a super-model?

That's like refusing to drive a car, because NASCAR wouldn't hire you as a driver.
What's wrong with high standards? Its no point living the ordinary life.
 

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If you're nailing HB7-8 girls with ease, saying you want to wait for a 9 or 10 before you marry a girl is one thing.

But it's an entirely different thing to use high standards as a justification of one's own failures with women. If you can't fvck an 8, you have no business saying you're just waiting on a 10. It's a coping mechanism designed to protect the ego.

It is easy to despise what you cannot get: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Fox_and_the_Grapes

And that's where a lot of sosuave's "all women are low quality" attitude comes from. A coping mechanism like that is a mental barrier that is only going to hold you back.
 
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