"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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chevelle

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might be moving to SOBE real soon. Shoot me a pm with your info!
 

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The guy i was supposed to temporarily stay with in SOBE flaked on me. I have searched craigslist with no luck, so it might be a while before i am in Miami.

Hit me up, if you know of anyone who needs a roommate ($$$$), until i find longterm living arrangements.

thanks-
 

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chevelle said:
The guy i was supposed to temporarily stay with in SOBE flaked on me. I have searched craigslist with no luck, so it might be a while before i am in Miami.

Hit me up, if you know of anyone who needs a roommate ($$$$), until i find longterm living arrangements.

thanks-
I have a guy who has access to the active MLS down here and can find you a place to rent/buy, if that helps any.
shoot me a PM if want the contact info.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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The Inside Man

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Whats up guys. I just moved to the south florida area but am currently in ohio for the holidays. I live in the WPB area but wouldn't mind going down to Miami, only been there a few times. Alot of the guys I've met my age are hardcore pillheads or druggies so most of my sarging has been solo thus far. I will say that I am really missing the 70+ degree weather right now!!!
 

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What Do You Guys Think Of Anna Kournikova The Russian Best Tennis Star In The World Am Going To Suduce Her Cause I Think She Is The Hotest Chick In The World.don't Neer Her Oh Cause You Will Die.
 

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I live in Miami. Coral Gables to be exact. I'm down for hitting up a bar sometime with any of you guys. My DJ skills aren't great, but I'm down for anything. I'm much more of a bar-type guy, don't really like the clubs. I haven't been to the beach in a while, but I used to frequent the Irish Playwright, Automatic Slims, Shore Club and the Delano.

In Coral Gables, City Cellar and Jakes are pretty good for a laid back night, of course, there's always the Grove for all the UM chicks.
 

The Inside Man

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Coral Gables is a cool city, I visited there when thinking about going to Miami U for undergrad, stayed at the biltmore hotel. We should try to get something going in the south florida area, except not invite the guy that was rambling about kournikova?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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JeeperCane

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The Inside Man said:
Coral Gables is a cool city, I visited there when thinking about going to Miami U for undergrad, stayed at the biltmore hotel. We should try to get something going in the south florida area, except not invite the guy that was rambling about kournikova?
Let me know man. Send me a PM or something. I did wind up going to UM and loved it!
 

The Inside Man

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I will be going to Miami U for a job fair this coming saturday, any peeeeeeimps want to meet up for some drinks and clubs? I feel like the main thing holding me back in south fla. is that I don;t have a good group of guys to go out with like I did in ohio. If anyone in the area wants to meet up, post on here or PM me just got them turned back on. Come on guys, lets get a rowdy group together and rage forth on sat. night.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Hunterchilla

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hey mcpwn i go to FIU also!! do you have AIM or something? or a facebook ?
 
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inthemiami123

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Hi Djs ,

Im in sobe all next week,
pm me if you wanna go out
there are nice hostels down here,so far good
 

its a guy thing

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Looking for pees who are old enough to get into the bars around here for tonight. I'm in Ft Lauderdale. Definitely open to South beach. In town for work until tomorrow afternoon.

PM me w/ your #

Don't want mine floating out here on the internets.
 

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I live in miami. need of a wing man with skills. I am new to the game. I go to FIU
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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