escaleraroyal
Master Don Juan
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Gibdon on Wade dunk was disgusting!!
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
If this first game is indicating anything maybe you might have to be the one making the apologynmartinez12443 said:Time will tell and I will be bumping this up and accepting your apologies.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
It's been a rough couple months lol... But every one of those organizations is moving in the right direction. Plus, the Blackhawks won last year and had a major overhaul of their roster. So, that was expected.Fred_Scuttle said:it was the Bears, the Blackhawks, now the Bulls. dont think they are too happy in chi town tonight
Rose is inexperienced. NOT overrated. He proved he can carry a team on his back and at least to the conference finals. He was being guarded by two or three different guys (one being the BEST player in the league) with more size and reach and still managed to play decently.nmartinez12443 said:Still think Rose is overrated, but gotta admit bulls looked great last night and I was WAY WRONG.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
If he doesn't sign a contract extension this summer then sure why not?PDubb75 said:C-quenced. Would you mind handing over Dwight Howard? kthanks
They might pick up O.J. Mayo or J.R. Smith. I remember they were thinking about Courtney Lee a while back. This should get interesting.nmartinez12443 said:Well I dont want to gloat but I was right. As for the bulls, they won't win without getting a great sf/sg as of now I can think OF none that are wanting to be traded. One could say they could get westbrook and make him and 2 guard, but nah. I think the bulls will be good and a playoff team yearly, but they don't need a pg or c/pf (howard). The team that I close to being dominant is the Knicks and of course the Heat for years to come. Knicks need a big man (MARC GASOL) and a couple more role players and they should be great.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.