"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Miami or Montreal

SuavePlaya

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i'am planning to take a trip, but haven't decide which area will be better to go. If anyone is from these areas can you provide some type of information thanks alot.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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It's-Me

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It's going to be really cold down here (I live in Montreal). It's already pretty cold now, I'm wearing a sweater almost every day now. Unless you love Winter, I think you'd be better off in Miami. I enjoy the Winter because of hockey and skying and all, but I prefer the summer.

How long do you plan on staying in Miami or Montreal? What activities would you plan on doing?
 
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