"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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MGTOW: The Blind Leading The Blind?

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So tell me, do you believe All Women Are Wh0res? I believe in no unicorns.
I believe almost everyone on this planet has an unhealthy perspective of relationships and of their own needs. I think as men it's our jobs to understand the game and play it the correct way.

A woman is ALWAYS going to leave your ass if you consistently fail at meeting her needs in a relationship, they evolved that way because when we were cavemen a weak caveman would be a choice of partner that would = death of the cavewoman and the kids. It's biologically instilled in women to go for strength, mental, physical and emotional strength.

It's the way it is, it ain't changing and unless people can take a step back use a bit of philosophy and critical thinking they will never be happy. It is the mans job to make himself as strong as possible and STAY that way and it's the womans job to be emotionally taken care of so she can raise the kids.

Humanity in a nutshell, you stray off that line as a man and all hell breaks loose.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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You can look up Xsplat wordpress com, and search for "mgtow" in the search function. Xsplat writes about what he found on the now defunct MGTOWforum. It is interesting reading. The MGTOW's talk a lot about how important it is to be independent and free, but it really amounts to an inability to have relations with other people. The loneliness even creates hostility toward people who have sex.

So on that forum, with those guys, you aren’t even men going your own way. You are men disgusted by and afraid of and averse to ANYONE having sex.
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Honestly, judging by those comments, I don’t see a bunch of guys making a personal lifestyle choice. I see a bunch of guys with something wrong with them. Wrong not just sexually, but in attitude and emotions and clarity of thinking. It reads like little girls are chatting in there. It is frankly shocking.


It's a good thing the MGTOWforum isn't up anymore.


God, yes. And "all you need is confidence!" Confidence is great. But if that was all you needed, no one would have any problems with pickup. Tons of people have confidence and would achieve great success, emboldening the rest, and everyone's problems would be solved. (Does "all you need is confidence" work in any other field? Race cars? Music? Sales? Going to a job interview? Next time I won't bring my CV; the interviewer will be so impressed by my confidence that he'll give me the job, thinking my hidden qualities must be through the ROOF since I don't even bother with a CV. But I digress.)
Like i say most MGTOW guys have got deep seated issues. I mean most of the world does. You see these girls that are "sluts: they are miserable, they don't know who they are or how to be happy, they go from guy to guy in the quest to find a guy to "make them happy" not knowing that doesnt exist.

Sluts arent evil, they are little girls in pain who never grew up and are still seeking daddys approval which they never got.

For guys it works different they chase mommys approval through chasing the sluts which revolts the sluts and it all and up a big ****ing mess the guys go mgtow and the women end up single mothers on welfare.

Having a good relationship comes down to being an emotionally stable adult who can take care of himself, is honest, has self respect and isnt a ****head projecting all of his insecurities on other people.
 
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