"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Methods of attraction

Toohot4upilot

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Here are a few Party/Club methods I’ve used in the past in order to start a conversation with a girl I’ve liked.



Scenario 1



You’re at a house party, it’s quite busy. There is a HB across the room you fancy and you think she keeps checking you out, but still not sure. Make eye contact and smile, when she finally looks away coyly you –immediately- walk away to another part of the room within viewing distance of the girl you wait and watch until she turns around to look at you again, only to find out your not there. If you see her panic and jerk her head wondering where you have gone, this confirms she is interested. This has confirmed interest in more than one occasion for me, and helps a lot.



Scenario 2



I was recently in a club and sitting next to a group of four girls, they were all pretty hot, high eights one in particular was a nine and sitting next to me, her back was more or less turned though and it felt rather intimidating to dry start a conversation with them until I noticed that she was drinking the same as me and had her drink on the table next to me. So what can you do? Position yourself near to her and put your drink next to hers. Then pretend to pick up her drink by mistake. When she realizes your error, you can be very apologetic and offer to order her another drink, thus a conversation is initiated. Although I’ve only managed to use this a couple times it’s easy, just make note of the colour of drink or one the same as yourself.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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The-Sultan

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I love these examples, i will deffantly use Scenario 1 :D
 
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