Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Methods of attraction

Toohot4upilot

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Here are a few Party/Club methods I’ve used in the past in order to start a conversation with a girl I’ve liked.



Scenario 1



You’re at a house party, it’s quite busy. There is a HB across the room you fancy and you think she keeps checking you out, but still not sure. Make eye contact and smile, when she finally looks away coyly you –immediately- walk away to another part of the room within viewing distance of the girl you wait and watch until she turns around to look at you again, only to find out your not there. If you see her panic and jerk her head wondering where you have gone, this confirms she is interested. This has confirmed interest in more than one occasion for me, and helps a lot.



Scenario 2



I was recently in a club and sitting next to a group of four girls, they were all pretty hot, high eights one in particular was a nine and sitting next to me, her back was more or less turned though and it felt rather intimidating to dry start a conversation with them until I noticed that she was drinking the same as me and had her drink on the table next to me. So what can you do? Position yourself near to her and put your drink next to hers. Then pretend to pick up her drink by mistake. When she realizes your error, you can be very apologetic and offer to order her another drink, thus a conversation is initiated. Although I’ve only managed to use this a couple times it’s easy, just make note of the colour of drink or one the same as yourself.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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The-Sultan

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I love these examples, i will deffantly use Scenario 1 :D
 
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