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[HeyPachuco!]

I'm having trouble with understanding the 3-second rule and it's concepts. This is what I've understood so far - as soon as I hit a club, are you telling me that I have 3 seconds to approach a girl/ group of girls? if thats the case, how do you open a set with multiple girls? AFC Adam has explained the ''meta game'' perfectly, but my question would be for that is ---- if you cricle around a club, approaching sets of HB5's, HB6's, HB7's firstly - then making it somehow easier for the HB9's+ to approach? How do you OPEN A SET

Me and the boys where thinking of bringing cameras and video cams to the clubs this weekend, and filming us talking about absolute nothing, but had the theory of it somehow advancing our social proof - has anyone tried this yet?

 

[Neurosponge]

Dude there are tons of openers and info on how to open available. There are plenty of pre-existing lines that you can read and use to some success. to open a set of multiple girls, I think an effective technique is by going in and be like "excuse me ladies, my and my friend are debating whether or not girls or guys are bigger liars, what do you think?". You generally open a set with you're body language and confidence, though, not necessarily by what you say.

Also, I think the 3-second rule is that if you see a girl you want to approach, GO FOR IT...NOW! don't wait past 3 seconds to approach or else you start to psych yourself out. this is something I definitely need to work on lol.

 

[ENIGMA16]

The 3 second rule means that you should be approaching a woman within 3 seconds of finding her attractive. The purpose of this rule is to get you moving and talking before your nerves have a chance to kick in and sabotage it for you.

 

[Sandow]

The whole idea of the 3 second rule is to get you approaching. It doesn't necessarily work or is effective, but the point here is to go out there and practice, practice, practice!

The 3 second rule is most useful for newbies who have approach anxiety. If you apply this rule to most places you go, you will gain a lot of experience talking to all different sorts of girls...to the extent at one point approaching will seem like a breeze and no biggie.

Once you get more experienced and better at your game, you don't always have to apply this rule.

 

[ENIGMA16]

The whole idea of the 3 second rule is to get you approaching. It doesn't necessarily work or is effective

As you said, the goal of the 3 second rule is to get you approaching. So if you follow the rule, it will always work and is always effective in achieving that goal - i.e. the goal of getting you to approach.

 

[HeyPachuco!]

@ JLay87 - Giving that I find her attractive, ex. Shes a HB9, this totally ignores anything of the meta game, now if I approach her then I'm ignoring the room dynamics with everyon else in the room and being completly direct. I don't struggle with approaching, but I like to anticipate my time ---- so personally I think the 3 second rule sabotages my game.

@ Neurosponge - Ive skimmed through loads of openers on here and other sites, I've found some of the best here. But I'm not that sort of guy to say ''Hey ladies'', ''So whose the bigger liars, girls or boys'' or ''Excuse me ladies'' ---- Just doesnt fit my personal preference. I prefer the comedical sarcastic openers, like ''So who gets hit on the most here''. And read what I said above about the 3 second ruling (I'm totally talking about social events ---clubs/ bars here ----not daygame or any other time), however I can see why the 3 second rule helps in other aspects.

@ Sandow - Yeah I gathered that much now, cheers. Just wanted a quick run down to what it actually came down to.

 

[Sandow]

Jlay- if the goal is to get you approaching yes, it's effective at that. However I think a lot of guys here are mistaken that the 3 second rule is a tool for attraction or it will get you the number everytime. It has nothing to do with that, it's just a good thing to practice. Keep in mind, you will get denied a lot but what doesn't kill you only makes you stronger which I believe is the whole idea behind it.

 

[Solomon]

Great thread

I'm having trouble with understanding the 3-second rule and it's concepts. This is what I've understood so far - as soon as I hit a club, are you telling me that I have 3 seconds to approach a girl/ group of girls? if thats the case, how do you open a set with multiple girls? AFC Adam has explained the ''meta game'' perfectly, but my question would be for that is ---- if you cricle around a club, approaching sets of HB5's, HB6's, HB7's firstly - then making it somehow easier for the HB9's+ to approach? How do you OPEN A SET
Don't look at "meta game" as approaching, look at as you interacting with the club. Now a days 90% of my game is doing this because of who I am. I'm a social being, so it's nothing. I open up chicks/dudes/bouncers etc etc. It's invitable hot chicks will noticed, a couple weeks ago I had the whole club screaming "woo, woo" it was fun
Me and the boys where thinking of bringing cameras and video cams to the clubs this weekend, and filming us talking about absolute nothing, but had the theory of it somehow advancing our social proof - has anyone tried this yet?

I love Meta Game it's all I do, for instance I'll dance talk to one Hb then flip and talk to another, then when the other HB sees that go back. I talk to everyone, basically the club is mine that's my mentality I make sure people are alright, if you are cool I'll chop it up if not I keep it moving.

Peace

p.s.

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=103124&highlight=shezz
^^this thread talks about "meta game" a bit, self-amusmenet with your wings/self is perfect for this

 

[HeyPachuco!]

I love Meta Game it's all I do, for instance I'll dance talk to one Hb then flip and talk to another, then when the other HB sees that go back. I talk to everyone, basically the club is mine that's my mentality I make sure people are alright, if you are cool I'll chop it up if not I keep it moving.

Peace

p.s.

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=103124&highlight=shezz
^^this thread talks about "meta game" a bit, self-amusmenet with your wings/self is perfect for this

Yeah I love the whole circling around groups dancing and picking up the ''unexpected'' target making the other targets who always get picke dup want validation :rockon:

Best method Ive used for the clubs. Cheers for the link Sol.

 

[xdreamz]

if ur bold and ur not timid, then you can get away with a lot. i've been in instances where i just walk up to the table, sit down with them, and introduce myself and was able to get the number close i wanted, hell, they even bought me drinks. so you don't really have to overcomplicate with a 'who lies more' then go into routines and do false time constraints, those are all just strategies to make you look good but without proper execution then it doesn't really do much at all. just be real

the 3 second rule for me is to enter action with fearlessness instead of waiting because by the time after 3 seconds they're already past you and there goes your lay, or like everyone else says ur mind starts kicking in and it makes you look timid. that's the whole point of the 3 seconds rule, if i were to name it something else i'd call it the 'approach now rule'. because see what a lot of guys will do is they'll think of what to say and everything will be just too calculated when they approach where as living in the moment even if ur unprepared will be much more effective.