"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Met with her, used KINO, but stuck at the end?!

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There is this kinda shy, but hot, girl I have seen twice now. The first time was just going out to lunch. Then I met with her and got some coffee and a nearby coffee shop for about an hour or so.

Anyway, both times I got some good KINO going, and I can tell that she is attracted to me, as she even mentioned seeing a movie together (at my place, of course).

The problem is when we part...last night, for instance, when she was going to leave, I didn't know how to apply kino, or get the kiss.How should I go in for it? It seems so awkward just to suddenly start doing it.

She seems alittle shy about it so I didn't want to jump right in and make her uncomfortable.

So what I am thinking is that next time, I'll walk her back with my arm around her, and then use more KINO at the end and see where it takes me.

Any other suggestions?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Ya man those dates aren't my favorites either. The thing, however, is that we are REALLY busy right now because it's the final quarter for university, and there's a lot of work and studying to do.

I was planning to take her rock climbing yesterday, but it didn't work out ( I was too busy), so I just met her for some coffee since I was getting some anyway.

Anyway, I still applied some good kino and got her on my skateboard, which added a little more excitement.

But ya, as soon as things die down a bit in the next couple weeks, we'll be able to do a little more.
 

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The best advice I can give you is this: if she is attracted to you, she wants you to kiss her ! She's not going to help u out by starting to lean in or any crap like that. She's going to wait for you to do it b/c its your job !


Shy girls suck, b/c you can never gauge their interest level. I ALWAYS used have trouble with the first kiss. I always acted like a total idiot trying to get it, sometimes i'd embarass myself, but if i know she likes me, it always turned into a make-out session.

Now i no longer act like an idiot. What I do is this: usually, if its a date, we'll be sitting on a couch together. Late in the movie, her anticipation for the kiss is high. Soon as she turns to look at u and locks eye contact, smile at her, and slowly move in.


If you're dropping her home, thats the easiest freakin' way to get the first kiss. Get out of the car, go up to her and she will give u a hug. Soon as u finish hugging her, just look down at her, smile, and kiss her. It'll flow nicely if you both had a great time.

I dont know what else to say. Getting the first kiss isn't brain surgery.

Note: if she's already into you, she will initiate a LOT of kino. As should you.
 
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