“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Met with her, used KINO, but stuck at the end?!

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There is this kinda shy, but hot, girl I have seen twice now. The first time was just going out to lunch. Then I met with her and got some coffee and a nearby coffee shop for about an hour or so.

Anyway, both times I got some good KINO going, and I can tell that she is attracted to me, as she even mentioned seeing a movie together (at my place, of course).

The problem is when we part...last night, for instance, when she was going to leave, I didn't know how to apply kino, or get the kiss.How should I go in for it? It seems so awkward just to suddenly start doing it.

She seems alittle shy about it so I didn't want to jump right in and make her uncomfortable.

So what I am thinking is that next time, I'll walk her back with my arm around her, and then use more KINO at the end and see where it takes me.

Any other suggestions?
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Ya man those dates aren't my favorites either. The thing, however, is that we are REALLY busy right now because it's the final quarter for university, and there's a lot of work and studying to do.

I was planning to take her rock climbing yesterday, but it didn't work out ( I was too busy), so I just met her for some coffee since I was getting some anyway.

Anyway, I still applied some good kino and got her on my skateboard, which added a little more excitement.

But ya, as soon as things die down a bit in the next couple weeks, we'll be able to do a little more.
 

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The best advice I can give you is this: if she is attracted to you, she wants you to kiss her ! She's not going to help u out by starting to lean in or any crap like that. She's going to wait for you to do it b/c its your job !


Shy girls suck, b/c you can never gauge their interest level. I ALWAYS used have trouble with the first kiss. I always acted like a total idiot trying to get it, sometimes i'd embarass myself, but if i know she likes me, it always turned into a make-out session.

Now i no longer act like an idiot. What I do is this: usually, if its a date, we'll be sitting on a couch together. Late in the movie, her anticipation for the kiss is high. Soon as she turns to look at u and locks eye contact, smile at her, and slowly move in.


If you're dropping her home, thats the easiest freakin' way to get the first kiss. Get out of the car, go up to her and she will give u a hug. Soon as u finish hugging her, just look down at her, smile, and kiss her. It'll flow nicely if you both had a great time.

I dont know what else to say. Getting the first kiss isn't brain surgery.

Note: if she's already into you, she will initiate a LOT of kino. As should you.
 
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