"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Met this nice girl, Really like her, any advice?

JamDude

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BTW, I am new here, this site seems pretty good.
Alright, a little background on me.
I am a senior in high school. My love life has been basically non-existant except for a few make outs at parties and early gfs. The last gf I had was in 8th grade. I have just not really thought about girls all that much, I play guitar and used to smoke a lot of weed. Hangout with all of my friends and play sports and drink and smoke weed was the typical weekend. I think I was just not motivated. But recently I quit weed and I really am interested in this girl I met over spring break.
So me and a buddy went down to the beach and met these girls. Basically 20 minutes after playing the game with them, I was attracted to this on girl C who was the 2nd hottest girl in the group. We had fun that night all hanging out as a group and they were obviously having a good time, they wanted to keep hanging out with us. We went to a beach fire party that night. Me and C were talking but there were other guys hitting on her being rude or w/e and every time they did, she would kinda turn around to me and say, " I don't like that." or something like that. So we met them the next day at the beach and hung out again, me and her ended up always standing next to each other in our group and talking. Not much happened that day except fun and getting drunk. The next day was by far the best, me and my two guy buddies invited the girls to my cousins beach house to chill. We were on the island the whole time before, but my cousin has a beach house off of the island that is a really amazing place, and I couldn't pass it up. So they get there and we all hang out and talk. We go inside and I have a deeper conversation with her about things, music, hiking, and we both have such similar interests it seems perfect. Later that night we went to a party and I knew there was something between us, at least to me, but I am not that aggressive or good with timing, so I never really made a move on her physically, like even holding hands or something. Another thing is she always laughs at my jokes, even if they are not funny, I can't tell if this is because she is just being nice or really into me.

On the way home the next day she was talking to me the whole ride up. So now I am going to ask her out this weekend. What do you guys make of this situation? Does it sound good?
 

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You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

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Dont not fall for her before she falls for you and never feel more for her than she feels for you ... You will know only by her actions what she really feels... Her words are smoke screens..

Dont admit to her that she has you ... keep her off balance and make her wonder and work for your devotion... Be random surprise her...
 

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So should I straight up call her and ask her out on a date? or should I call her and bring up something else?
 

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JamDude said:
So should I straight up call her and ask her out on a date? or should I call her and bring up something else?
Call her up and ask her for a date and this time when you hang out with her make a move. She wants you dude. Do not worry about anything else. She wants you to lead her so do just that.:cool:

When you call her don't bs around at all simply minimal talk and make a date.
 

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You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

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Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

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Your goal should be to go for the kiss my bro.. you want her to get used to you touching her.. so hug her a couple times... put you elbow out so she can hold on to you while your walking... then talk about one of you funnest moments about the beach pro ally shouldn't involve her, drinking, or smoking, all while starring into her eye pause slowly move in stop right before you meet her lips then go in and kiss her ect.
 

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I just called her and I straight up asked her out for dinner this weekend. The thing is, she said she has to go to a wedding this weekend. So I was just like ok, well I understand. Then she goes, "but i'll get back to you on that." So I think a date is probably in the near future. I feel like I am too into this girl too quickly though, like the post above said not to be, but I can't really change my mind. So I am just gonna go with it. But in reality I am a noob at dates and probably need some pointers. But it was pretty easy to talk to her at the beach.
 

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I just got some bad news, my friend told me that when I was talking to C in another room, he was talking to her friends, and they told him that C has a boyfriend. So now I am confused, she never told me she had a boyfriend, and now I am a little confused. I guess she was into me because she would've told me she had a boyfriend if she wasn't. I am just going to wait until she calls me and see what she says. Any advice?
 
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