"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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met this girl offline-we hardly knew each other

joe45

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ok heres the deal that happened yesterday-met a girl
offline yesterday for lunch. funnyt thing is i didn't
chat with her that long-like 2 days and she was willing to meet
and we exchanged #'s.me. other girls offline have been hestiated
to meet guys offline b/c of safety reasons -thats what they
told me.
so we meet up like at 1, i wanted to go for coffee and talk
she doesn't drink coffee so we walk around and got
something to eat at fridays. we talk she seems to be
the rebellious type-her profile says she has 10
piercings and 3 tats, she tells me shes been going
clubbing illegally before-shes 19, she drinks, smokes,
and does pot.
i ask her about her previous bfs-she has had many like
6 or around 8 and this girl is like 19 only-all have cheated or
had gfs while with her-ok is this normal girl these
days to have 6-8 bfs and be 19 yrs of age-that kind of
a lot.
i ask about her previous dates and she meets em at clubs and
she shows me a pic of 2 of her exs-from her
walllet-who keeps pics of thier exs-especially the
ones that cheated on her.one cheated on her-was with
her for 2 yrs and the other for 1 yr had a gf while
was with her-she said ah they all a holes. lol is it
really her exs or is it her bf. u think that one would
throw away the pic or burn it esp if they cheated on
u-why u keepin it.

shes chinese cbc- all her bfs have been white guys
-not one asian-i aske her abouot it-do u prefer white
guys and she said ah no -its all about the
personality. i mean u live in vancouver and u have not
once dated an asian guy-come on, i think she really
wanted to meet me b/c of my profile
-http://www.plentyoffish.com/member791628.htm -yea
the bmw z4 which i don;t own and i did mention it to
her too, and she thinks i'm rich. i think she really
prefers a white guy-the ones she dated previosuly she
told me were all low lifes-HS dropouts, dealers, but
she wanted me an asian guy b/c i have money which she
believes but i don;t. u gotta now some asian gals only
go for white guys.

i really donlt think this girl is my type-too wild and
party type, i'm more conservative and i don;t like the
idea of a girl being with so many guys at such a young
age.she also materialistic-goes shopping 3x's a wk and shops at
high end places too,and, not sure if she the
type that buys her own goods or a gold digger- later
on wants the guy to pay for her. she did mention about
going shopping and me paying for her goods and
carrying her bags, i said ah no and then she said -lol
j/k hahah lol-this on msn. i shouldn't even have met
up with her ,but i did since i just wanted to meet
someone off the net. guys any thoughts or ideas - ineed advice
what do u think.
 

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Wiesman44

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dont go by what we think of this girl, go by what u think
 

DarkLight

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Wiseman Said it best!

but... lol, I got to throw in my 2 cents!

Your trippin! Cut this girl!

She's into drugs, dated a grip of dudes that used her, and she still carries around their pics, into you cause she thinks you supposedly have money, and even tested you with buying AND carrying the sh1t for her!

HELL NO!

Talk about a low self esteem, classless, loser user!

If you don't demand quality women for yourself in life... who will?


I think you already know the answer... you just needed someone else to shout louder than the weak voice in you, that is willing to accept her just to MAYBE get some trim.

Don Jaun up my friend!

-DarkLight-

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P.S. I would retitle your profile with something other than "generous nice guy"

its says all the wrong things. lol
 

joe45

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thanks guys for the advice-yea i knew right away this girl was gold digging -she doesn;t even like asian guys- i am and she is also, i think she just wanted to meet me for money wise-

yea just got oever talking with her on msn-i guess she got the vibe yesterday when she asked me about my bmw car-i told her i took the bus-she sensed it for sure-i didn;t have the car
well she said on msn today that i was too immature-we were shopping past a mall and a freind of a girl i liked worked at the kiosk was there i wanted her to pretend we were a together so i can get the girl i like to be jealous- i think shes too serious type

, sheltered-id din't now how much to tip-hey i hardly go to restaurants and she said she goes out every night eating out, and she said she was never attracted to aisan guys-when i asked why she said i dunno. in her pics in her online profile she has asian freinds.

really shes not my type-rebellous, goes out too much and she even said "i luv money" i think i attracted the wrong girl. this girl tells me she has like 3 gfs and like 20 guy freinds- too weird.-isn;t that what u call an attention *****.
 
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