"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Met her on vacation, she lives 10 mins away from me

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I met this girl while on vacation far far away. Turns out she only lives 10 minutes away from my house and 5 mins from my work. Such a small world.

We hit it off at the club. She was with her friend, I was with a friend. I think her friend ended up liking me too. I was chatting up both of them.

Anyways we all left the bar together and went to the beach. The target was sitting across from me, playing with her hair alot, touching her lips with her finger.... lots of positive signals but ultimately I couldnt seal the deal because we never had any privacy with her friend there, who was somewhat of a distraction and ****block (I also wanted to bang her too) :rockon:. Her friend and my friend didnt hit it off at all so they just got in the way.


her friend pulled a "im so tired, we should go to sleep" and after a few minuets of hanging out more, she said it again so they left.


Anyways, I didnt see them again as I left the next day. I did get there Facebook and added them.

Should I ask her to hang out sometime on facebook? Whats the best way to go about this.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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be like "lets continue the party"

If you like her, then def hit it up
 
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I concur with the two posters above me. However, you can pull in some extra attraction with the fact that the two of you live so close together. Girls like to be swept of their feet, including with stuff that points out that you are "made for each other".

You will have something in common with most of the girls you'll be dating, and since most people were raised in a similar fashion, there's a very large chance that the two of you share similar interests, memories or experiences. Use those to your advantage to sweep her off her feet, which will create a bond way faster, and makes it easier to escalate things.
 
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