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Met her folks....what's my next move?

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Just got back from a few days with the girl I'm seeing who lives long-distance(about 2hrs away). She's 25 and a teacher. Lives with her folks. Met her back on the 1st of July and have been out with her about once every two weeks since August.

Anyway, spent the last 2 days at her place and things went well with her folks(At least....it felt that way). Just got back this morning before work and haven't spoken with her again yet. When should I get back in touch with her or should I just let her call me. Also wondering if I should do something sweet like send her an e-card and tell her how much of a great time I had. What do you suggest? Thanks.

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Looks like you don't know what you wanna do.

You have to decide for yourself man. Once you know what kind of relationship you want with her, make your next move.

If you still can't decide, make a test for her or ask her some questions.
 
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Well, I definitely want to keep seeing her and keep her interest level high(assuming her parents had some good things to say about me after I left). Not entirely sure whether I want it to be a serious ltr yet though, but she's a strong contender. Anyway, for now should I be the one to contact her first or should I let her get back to me? Send her the e-card? Either way, I want to leave her with a good feeling.

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