"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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met girl which is crazy

pyros

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Hi.

I met a nice looking girl some weeks ago. She's 29. We met yesterday for a drink, we talked and she just told me straighaway from minute 15 that she can see ghosts.
She sees them everywhere, she says it does not scare her etc

I thought: 'great, she's nuts', but I just went with the flow, asked her about it and blah blah, and we ended up making out, because honestly, she's pretty hot.

WTF?? she may see dead people, but why would you say that in a first date? this makes me think she's even crazier.

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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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She has extra sensory abilities. She just wanted to see if you are ok with it, before getting it serious with you.

She's not nuts, she just has extra sensory abilities, she can see ghosts. Ghosts usually come to deliver a message.

For example, I'm no extra-sense, but I once was driving at dusk past this crash sight of a relative of my neighbor. And I saw a guy standing there. I could just write it off as a drunk standing on the side of the road. Except as I drove I didn't see him, I only saw him to the side of my eyes as I was driving exactly past the place where a man died. What you know, a week or two later I got into argument with my neighbor. The ghost gave me a warning, don't argue with that idiot, if he dies of heart attack at his age you will be responsible.

Now, anyone can see what I saw. But I'm pretty sure your girl has something more, something special.

Although, you probably think she is nuts because she is outside your scope of normal - thus you come here to the heard of sheep to get approval from like minded close minded individuals of the heard. Expand your mind. There is more to this world than just the main stream, accepted.
 

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I do not think she's nuts, well, at least, not totally.
But why would you say something like that ON THE FIRST DATE? you say cause she wants to know if im ok with it but come on, you should get to know a person a bit, and after several dates you may start to explain certain things about yourself, but on the very begining it makes me wonder...

Besides, she says she started seing these ghosts just some months ago.
Weird at least.

P.S.
Im open minded which she obviously liked.
 

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Dated a woman that claimed she was clairvoyant.
I have no idea if she is or not or what that really means.
She didn't tell me for a while. My first impression was this chick is whacked, however, other than that she was a pretty cool woman.

As time went on, this clairvoyance thing was just one of the many traits / quirks and oddities that made her quite high maintenance.

If this woman told you that right away, I'm pretty sure that in the future you will have lots of drama ... LOTS!

Don't let this one get her foot in the door.
But for fun, why not.
Might get you a ghoulish threesome :)

SH
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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