"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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met girl which is crazy

pyros

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Hi.

I met a nice looking girl some weeks ago. She's 29. We met yesterday for a drink, we talked and she just told me straighaway from minute 15 that she can see ghosts.
She sees them everywhere, she says it does not scare her etc

I thought: 'great, she's nuts', but I just went with the flow, asked her about it and blah blah, and we ended up making out, because honestly, she's pretty hot.

WTF?? she may see dead people, but why would you say that in a first date? this makes me think she's even crazier.

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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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She has extra sensory abilities. She just wanted to see if you are ok with it, before getting it serious with you.

She's not nuts, she just has extra sensory abilities, she can see ghosts. Ghosts usually come to deliver a message.

For example, I'm no extra-sense, but I once was driving at dusk past this crash sight of a relative of my neighbor. And I saw a guy standing there. I could just write it off as a drunk standing on the side of the road. Except as I drove I didn't see him, I only saw him to the side of my eyes as I was driving exactly past the place where a man died. What you know, a week or two later I got into argument with my neighbor. The ghost gave me a warning, don't argue with that idiot, if he dies of heart attack at his age you will be responsible.

Now, anyone can see what I saw. But I'm pretty sure your girl has something more, something special.

Although, you probably think she is nuts because she is outside your scope of normal - thus you come here to the heard of sheep to get approval from like minded close minded individuals of the heard. Expand your mind. There is more to this world than just the main stream, accepted.
 

pyros

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I do not think she's nuts, well, at least, not totally.
But why would you say something like that ON THE FIRST DATE? you say cause she wants to know if im ok with it but come on, you should get to know a person a bit, and after several dates you may start to explain certain things about yourself, but on the very begining it makes me wonder...

Besides, she says she started seing these ghosts just some months ago.
Weird at least.

P.S.
Im open minded which she obviously liked.
 

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Dated a woman that claimed she was clairvoyant.
I have no idea if she is or not or what that really means.
She didn't tell me for a while. My first impression was this chick is whacked, however, other than that she was a pretty cool woman.

As time went on, this clairvoyance thing was just one of the many traits / quirks and oddities that made her quite high maintenance.

If this woman told you that right away, I'm pretty sure that in the future you will have lots of drama ... LOTS!

Don't let this one get her foot in the door.
But for fun, why not.
Might get you a ghoulish threesome :)

SH
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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