"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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met girl when i was drunk, call?

gophking

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hey all, the other night me and the guys i work with had a big party (everyone there was pretty much 16- 22 - im 17).. anyway night was going good and i was meeting a bunch of girls but i met this one chick and by this time i was pretty drunk however she said she was driving so i dont think she was, well we kissed for a little bit and i got her number but i dont remember too much else that happened..

now she lives in a town about 30 or 40min from where i live and i was pretty drunk when i met her but from what i remember she seems like a cool girl and is someone i would want to chill with again, my question is even though she lives kind of far from me n i was pretty drunk when i met her should i bother to call her n follow up on this or do you think she'd just be like wtf is this dude callin me for?

the party was sunday so its been a few days, if nething ill call her tomorrow but how should i follow up on her if i should at all?

thanks a lot
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Yes...

Call her, definately. Wait a couple of days then tell her that you'd like to see her again. If she says no, then at least you tried and you can find some other girls to hit on.

30-40 minutes isn't really that far in the grand scheme of things.
 

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i hear ya bro, i actually just called her up last night as i was out at my friends party (its been 2 days so its alrite)..

anyway she said she definitley wants to hang out again n i think theres this party wed. we are probably goin to , i was definitly gettin a good vibe from her over the phone so i'm lookin forward to it
 

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That's great, dude.
 

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hope u werent bein sarcastic - no need for that here

neway, not makin that party because its too far from where i live and i have to go to work the next day- i do think i would have banged her if i did go (she told me on the phone she was gonna get drunk)

im kind of bummed out i couldn't make the party but ill just do something else for the night, ill just figure something else out and have to hang out with her later this week (when she won;t be so far away- her house ~25min this party about 45min)



-well she just called me from the party n wished i was there, i just told her i mite call her tomorrow to do something n she sounded kinda upset she wasnt goin to see me tointe
 
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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