"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Met girl in line. What would you do?

1-800-HellNo

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I'll keep this as short as possible.
I was at a Verizon store waiting to get my new phone.
They were really backed up that day and this dime was waiting too.
She was incredibly hot, 5'10, just my type.
She started conversation with me, and definitely was flirting. I kept my cool and think I played it off pretty good, for having almost nothing to work with.

She was telling me she was mad the ice cream place next door was closed, because she was stressed and wanted some.
I was gonna try for an insta-date by taking her to an ice cream place nearby, but got called up to the counter right then. I was gonna tell her to give me her number so i could test out my new phone.

When i was finally done, she was at the other counter, taking care of her phone. It didn't feel "right" to wait, and i wasn't sure what else to do, so i left.

What would you have done?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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1-800-HellNo said:
I'll keep this as short as possible.
I was at a Verizon store waiting to get my new phone.
They were really backed up that day and this dime was waiting too.
She was incredibly hot, 5'10, just my type.
She started conversation with me, and definitely was flirting. I kept my cool and think I played it off pretty good, for having almost nothing to work with.

She was telling me she was mad the ice cream place next door was closed, because she was stressed and wanted some.
I was gonna try for an insta-date by taking her to an ice cream place nearby, but got called up to the counter right then. I was gonna tell her to give me her number so i could test out my new phone.

When i was finally done, she was at the other counter, taking care of her phone. It didn't feel "right" to wait, and i wasn't sure what else to do, so i left.

What would you have done?

If I was you?

Regretted it.
 

mv.89

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I would've waited outside the store if it had only one exit. Then when she comes out. "How about that ice cream?" or even better "let's go get that ice cream"
 

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Making sure, you had built good rapport with her already, grab her by the hand while she is still finishing off the sentence/ conversation and tell her to lets screw the line and go find an ice cream store?

I've done this before mid date to do something else completely off the road and girls love it; someone leading them and doing something spontaneous.

Bear in mind though, I'm a recovering AFC so I don't know if I have any say in this.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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