Met girl from internet tonight and things went pretty bad.. Did I do the right thing?

[chance-]

okay so if she's that fuked up why would you wanna be friends with her?

 

[My Name is Nobody]

okay so if she's that fuked up why would you wanna be friends with her?

well obviosly being friends with her could lead to getting laid.

 

[mrRuckus]

Men pursue action, not idle womanly chit-chat. (And if you do pursue chit-chat, rest assured that it will not be a turn-on for women.)

Oh shut up.

I talk to women for hours on end, have a lot of laughs, talk about some serious topics maybe, then go home and have sex with them. Somtimes with ZERO kino beforehand! (omg!!)

I interest them and put them at ease, and they rarely shut down my attempts at physical escalation. SOMEWHERE in my "boring unmanly chit chat" i managed to TURN HER ON. Don't get turned away from an avenue where you can completely amaze a woman because you suck at it. This just like the "myspace sucks" thread where the guy can't get any from myspace so he blames it on flaky myspace chicks rather than himself for not getting them not to flake to begin with.

You guys look way too much into this "men do this" and "women do that" biology bullsh1t.

BTW, men talk aplenty. We are the politicians. We are the philosophers. We are the debaters. We are the comedians. Women just help us pick out a tie before the show and become our audience.

 

[My Name is Nobody]

DAMMIT YOU ARE MISSING THE POINT

SHE INVITED ME TO PLAY TENNIS. I DROVE AN HOUR.

She hallucinated someone hiding in my car.

We went and sat and talked for 20 minutes.

I told her I want to play tennis.

Then she changed her mind.

I offered to take her to dinner.

Offered to take her to movie.

Then when she refused to play tennis i got ****ing pissed and said SEE YA and squealed out of there.

F-CK THAT B!tch for what she did.

 

[Poonani Maker]

You have to use tension loops, nested loops, and get her to start validating herself through your messages in online dating. Patience is the key. NEVER respond to a message on the fly or haphazzardly. Be deliberate in what you say to her each time. Give a little, then take it away. Then give a little more and take away. Make her jump through Your hoops, not hers. For instance, I NEVER tell them my name until they tell me theirs. Sometimes they offer it to me. Yesterday I had one offer me her name instead of her screenname (we've been talking for 2 months back and forth) and I wrote back, "xxxxx is a pretty name. I know a lot of xxxxx's. I'll call you xxxxx #4" and her message to me today was "What does that mean? Did you try to call me?" I haven't messaged her back, but will in probably about a week. This is how I do it. Don't message for about a week, then she messages me back Immediately, then I wait a week, message, she messages immediately trying to validate show interest etc. It's hilarious. She's totally smitten or "caught" by my languaging patterns. Many women will not fall for it, but quite a few will, so keep practicing online gaming.

 

[My Name is Nobody]

I am RIGHT in this scenario. We had plans and she flaked at the last second.

She's lucky I didn't slap her in the face.

 

[chance-]

errm, she's not even worth sex. if you keep chasing up on her just to try get laid you're a fool. as if try to be friends with a dumb b-i-t-c-h like her.

 

[DJDamage]

I'm going to log in to AIM tonight , if she is on i will not say a word.

If she refuses to start a convo with me, I will delete her for good.

I will give her one more chance.

You are a desperate fool, quit acting like a child. SHE REJECTED YOU, HOW DENSE DO YOU HAVE TO BE???!! Your chance run out a long time ago.

OH this is the same girl who joined on MATCH.COM and in her profile says she is just looking for FRIENDS.

Once again you are dense.

What kind of psycho is this?.

I am begining to wonder who is the psycho here.

OH and PS: She is obsessed with her ex boyfriend that dumped her.

She isnt even that hot BTW/

You choose to get involved with damaged goods. You fit the AFC profile to a tee and she sniffed you out. You saw an average not so hot chick and all you thought about is banging her thinking that you are too good for her, and it will be a cake walk. When the reverse happened and she basically rejected you, your own ego can't take it.

Move on before you lose more then your dignity and self-respect.

 

[Serialized3]

:crackup: :crackup: :crackup:

How old are you? You sound like an angry little child.

I can't believe people are responding to this kid throwing a tempertantrum, calling us all idiots...

 

[CORVETTE06]

personally i think wat you did was not only wrong, but horrible. u should have just sat and talked to her like she wanted. she didnt want to go sit in a fancy restuarant or see a movie, she just wanted to talk.

you blew it.

 

[Crank_It_Up]

I have been talking ot this girl from the internet for a few months. We both love to play tennis, so we decided to meet for the first time tonight to play tennis.

I drove an hour to meet her.

She was a little late, so I was laying on top of my car waiting fior her.

When she got out and I gave her a hug she said " I Just saw someone hiding in the back of your car"

...And then shes like I dont feel like playing tennis anymore. "Cant we just sit here and talk".

So Im like "no I dont feel like just sitting here. How about I take you to a movie or a nice restaurant"? Shes not hungry and doesnt want to go see a movie.

So again, I asked her lets play tennis, THATS WHY I DROVE AN HOUR TO SEE HER N THE FIRST PLACE.

And she changed her mind because of an imaginary person she saw kiding in my car.

So you know what? I said you are not in the right mindframe and Im out of here.

Got up, walked away and sped off liek a motherf-ucker while she went back to her car and just sat there.

FINALLY I got home and got onto AIM. She was online. I told her "her i made it home alright" She said "Thats good" and logged off.

what a b!tch

Should I block her for good? I think I deserve an apology.

no don't block her for good, she's crazy about you. Girls always go for guys that lose their temper and drive off in a huff, it's just so manly. She's probably telling all her friends about the "manly" tennis player she met, and the failed kidnapping scheme. Maybe next time you could lay down on the ground and hold your breath while kicking and screaming. If that doesn't turn her on, nothing will. Good luck and keep up the good work.

 

[My Name is Nobody]

hahhaa

screw you guys dissing me...


Today I drove around town and every hot girl I saw I approached her in a smooth manner and got 3 phone numbers.

1 is a bit of an older Asian woman but DAMN I cant wait to call her and take her
out on a date.

Another couple numbers I got are iffy but I'm calling this asian woman soon... yummmyy nothing hotter than an thin, big boob, late 30's asian woman who is DIVORCED,,,, I am SURE she would love my 25 year old ****.

Just wait.... i bet its more than you fools have done recently.

 

[Crank_It_Up]

sounds great, ask her if she wants to play tennis, if she says no, you know what to do

 

[cedd]

very funny report ! did you ever read this forum ?

you made so much mistakes that it's pretty hilarious.

I have been talking ot this girl from the internet for a few months

this is your 1st mistake ! the best way for LJBF !

I offered to take her to dinner.
Offered to take her to movie.

offered to take money as well ?????

FINALLY I got home and got onto AIM. She was online. I told her "her i made it home alright" She said "Thats good" and logged off.

why talk to her again after such a behavior? you "reward" her with a "made it home alright" though she didn't deserve it. you should have removed her nickname from you buddy list and forget her !

for the next girl, avoid chat (msn or others) and ask for her number as soon as possible ! then talk to her ON THE PHONE !

cheers

 

[GamePlan]

Maybe, she just wasn't interested?

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

Big deal.

Just find a different tennis partner

What are you trying to say, "0 - Love?"

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

...F-CK THAT B!tch for what she did.

I say that you should hop on a plane to the orient and recruit a gang on Ninja assassins to exact your vengeance upon her.

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

..I talk to women for hours on end, have a lot of laughs, talk about some serious topics maybe, then go home and have sex with them. Somtimes with ZERO kino beforehand! (omg!!)....

I think he was talking about guys without any communication skills.

 

[Bonhomme]

Just drop it and learn from it, MNIN. You really, really need to spin more plates if you're putting so much value on this bad new b1tch.

Letting someone else set your agenda is not a good thing.

Show value. Live and learn.

 

[In2theGame]

I have been talking ot this girl from the internet for a few months. We both love to play tennis, so we decided to meet for the first time tonight to play tennis.

I drove an hour to meet her.

She was a little late, so I was laying on top of my car waiting fior her.

When she got out and I gave her a hug she said " I Just saw someone hiding in the back of your car"

I was Like WTF? So she must think I brought someone along to kidnaop her or something.

I opened all the doors in my car for her to see nobody was in there and she was like fine.

So we went to talk for awhile and Im like "Well lets go play tennis, that is what our plans were"

And then shes like I dont feel like playing tennis anymore. "Cant we just sit here and talk".

So Im like "no I dont feel like just sitting here. How about I take you to a movie or a nice restaurant"? Shes not hungry and doesnt want to go see a movie.

So again, I asked her lets play tennis, THATS WHY I DROVE AN HOUR TO SEE HER N THE FIRST PLACE.

And she changed her mind because of an imaginary person she saw kiding in my car.

So you know what? I said you are not in the right mindframe and Im out of here.

Got up, walked away and sped off liek a motherf-ucker while she went back to her car and just sat there.

FINALLY I got home and got onto AIM.

She was online.

I told her "her i made it home alright"

She said "Thats good" and logged off.

what a b!tch

Should I block her for good?

I think I deserve an apology.

You played it wrong. When she was like i dont feel like playing tennis.. You should have joked around with her to loosen the mood.

You: Oh you dont wanna play? your scared im gonna whip your ass? :Smile:

That would have made her feel better, making her smile.

When she said Whats that in the back of your Car? you should have said:

Where? Theres nothing in the back of my car? Its not a clwon car where 500 clowns are gonna come out. :Smile: Its just me sweetie. Thats what we planned right? Or is it you that have snipers around waiting to kill me if i Kiss your sweet lips?

When she suggested that she wanted to walk, sit and talk... Maybe she wanted to see if you convo'd with her and lead to you fingering her in your car? Or maybe she wanted to see what kind of guy you are, and if she liked you, Then she has in her mind that next time she invites you to meet her again, she will Let you "in".

You messed this one up but i suggest trying the things i just said for the next chick.