"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Met college freshman in day game: give me some date ideas

Masculinity

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A buddy of mine and I go out to college parties on the weekends. In one of them, I noticed a tan White/Asian girl with tight little body. I immediately opened her. Long story short, this girl hangs out with another girl (UG) that I also see at parties; they are roommates. We would run into each other so often, that I told her to stop following me around and just tell me what she had to say because I knew it (playfully of course). She responded with IOIs and then we ran into each other at the gym.

Yesterday, she was at the cafeteria with her friend. I invited myself to sit down with them and accused them of being Cuban spies. They were loving the game and the UG was giving me sh!t tests. I passed them with flying colors. At one point she said in the middle of the cafeteria "oh my God! You are hitting on us in the middle of the day! :) " and I responded with "That's right. I know you aren't used to it. It takes a lot of balls and most guys don't do it." My target smiled and I went in "I actually came to talk to you guys because I think your friend is cute; I'm going to flirt with her for the next minute ;)." She is an 18 year college freshman who likes to party.

Now, I usually pull girls at the club or kinesthetically at parties and end up making out with them or banging. I am not used to day game, but this case is kind of a hybrid. What are some "date" ideas? She parties hard. I don't think it would take much to bang her.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Take Her

Robyn923b said:
She parties hard. I don't think it would take much to bang her.
Take her to the nearest Stone Cold Creamery
 

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BeDJ said:
What makes her so different from other chicks?
She is not any different. My point was that I'm used to being aggressive and quick escalation. But that too much aggressiveness may not be appropriate for this context, yet enough is needed for the bang. My question is how much time would you guys shoot for to bang a girl like this?

Maximus Rex said:
Take her to the nearest Stone Cold Creamery
I like this. Frozen yogurt is nearby. Aside from the, "I got this cool thing in my room I want to show you," what are some other ideas you guys use to bring the girl over to your place?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Robyn923b said:
I like this. Frozen yogurt is nearby. Aside from the, "I got this cool thing in my room I want to show you," what are some other ideas you guys use to bring the girl over to your place?
Curious to hear the feedback on this one...
 

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Robyn923b said:
She is not any different. My point was that I'm used to being aggressive and quick escalation. But that too much aggressiveness may not be appropriate for this context, yet enough is needed for the bang. My question is how much time would you guys shoot for to bang a girl like this?



I like this. Frozen yogurt is nearby. Aside from the, "I got this cool thing in my room I want to show you," what are some other ideas you guys use to bring the girl over to your place?
I usually just make her feel comfortable and have a good time on the first date then I usually just ask you wanna go back to my place for movies... lol , has yet to fail for me.

As for the date ideas, just take her out for drinks somewhere nice in your city. A college girl will never decline a drink invitation and take it from there. I say this because most of the girls I'm spinning are between the age of 19 - 23 and they are usually very responsive to a simple drink date and if they like you they will most likely go back to your place.
 
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