"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Met another girl tonight who absolutely loved me

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She was someone who knew my friend. We pretty much hung out all night (the 3 of us)...she was growing very very attracted to me but I don't really like her. She is 32, cute face but body is about 15 lbs too thick and I don't like the age either. If she was 26 and about 20 lbs thinner, I would be all in. We had phenomenal chemistry. I would love to be friends with her but I'm afraid she really wants to date me.


God I really need to stop being a vagina and go after the women I want. no more *****footing around with these women who don't fit my standards. It's like I'm scared to fix this problem so I go after decent women who are not quite good enough so I don't have to actually fix this. It's almost like I'm equally scared of success.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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