Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Met another girl tonight who absolutely loved me

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She was someone who knew my friend. We pretty much hung out all night (the 3 of us)...she was growing very very attracted to me but I don't really like her. She is 32, cute face but body is about 15 lbs too thick and I don't like the age either. If she was 26 and about 20 lbs thinner, I would be all in. We had phenomenal chemistry. I would love to be friends with her but I'm afraid she really wants to date me.


God I really need to stop being a vagina and go after the women I want. no more *****footing around with these women who don't fit my standards. It's like I'm scared to fix this problem so I go after decent women who are not quite good enough so I don't have to actually fix this. It's almost like I'm equally scared of success.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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