“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Met an Ideal Girl, but Did I BLOW it?

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So here's the deal...last week I met a very cute brunette, established interest, and got her number.

I tell her we'll meet on Saturday.

Saturday rolls around and due to banging another chick beforehand (and not getting much sleep), I am very tired and really don't feel like I'm in good shape to meet this girl for the first time.

As a result, I had to cancel on her.

The thing is that she seemed VERY VERY excited to meet me for the first time. I mean, she was practically thanking me over the phone like I was one of the coolest guys ever.

I also was excited to hook up with her and seeing how it goes, and I did actually feel sorry for cancelling on her. I could tell she was dissapointed by her voice.

Anyway, I told her that I'm still excited to see her, that Saturday just wasn't a good day, and that we'll definately see each other this week.

But I am worried that cancelling on her may have dramatically dropped her previously really high IL.

Any ideas or comments?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Yes you are probably right about the IL, BUT try to get her to think about whatever it was that attracted her to you in the first place. That might ignite the spark, so to speak. GL.
 
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Yeah, I'll try to do that. She seemed interested in me enough that I can still get to her.
 
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But I am worried that cancelling on her may have dramatically dropped her previously really high IL.
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If anything I think this would have the opposite effect and may even possibly amplify her attraction!

Think about it.. it shows you had other things to do (genuinely) like a DJ would, you are not desperate, you could take it or leave it etc... cute brunettes are not used to guys 'blowing them off' like this so to speak.

So long as you set up another date soon, I'm sure her IL will remain at least at the same level.
 
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ya just set up another date soon to "make it up" to her and make it seemed like you are a nice and considerate guy
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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ya just set up another date soon to "make it up" to her and make it seemed like you are a nice and considerate guy
 
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Make up a good funny story to why you had to cancel. Put it into the meet if she asks. Otherwise just keep her with the intrest
 
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oh come on, guys, girls are human beings and they are not made of steel, a self good high-value for us at the beggining is great!!! but once u had committed to that date, she got pissed off when u cancelled it, it´s not she doesn´t like you anymore, it´s just that u made her self-value get down, and now she may think your status is too high to her, she may even feel miserable about it.
I was going to post a thread about this, but i´m glad you posted it before, my case is a similar one: one girl imagines stories about me and she was willing me to get into the game and but i didn´t(lazyness and keeping the high-prize at the same time)and i can read by her body language that she feels miserable now: she looks up to me and and she also keeps leaning in when she walks around me . I don´t know if u could give some advises to the guy who post the thread and me at the same time, could be helpful for both of us
 
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Re: Re: Met an Ideal Girl, but Did I BLOW it?

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If anything I think this would have the opposite effect and may even possibly amplify her attraction!

Think about it.. it shows you had other things to do (genuinely) like a DJ would, you are not desperate, you could take it or leave it etc... cute brunettes are not used to guys 'blowing them off' like this so to speak.

So long as you set up another date soon, I'm sure her IL will remain at least at the same level.
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Listen to James on this one, he knows the deal.

How many times have girls cancelled on guys and made them feel like $hit? Hey, it's not your fault you have a life and girls to satisfy! Good job!
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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If she is really into you, she'll gladly give you another chance. But if you want in her panties, dont blow her off twice, and let her know you felt bad about cancelling, as you fondle her inner thighs with your tongue.
 
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