"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Ryan, ur sh1t is like slow torture.

Text her and say "I'd like to get to know you better before the concert, are you free for a drink/coffee at x day and x time?

If she declines and doesn't counter, move on.

If she accepts, go, try to kino, feel that sh1t out, try to escalate.

Whatever you do, don't keep cucking for 2 weeks before the concert by texting hey with small talk. She'll be done with you by then. If you don't want to try to ask her out before the concert go minimal or no contact. Try to keep the mystery and force a situation where she WANTS to talk to you the night if the concert.

Right now you don't owe her attention so, unless she is reciprocating interest, don't give her attention
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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well what's the best thing to do in this situation. try and ask her out or just dont talk until the concert. we have t talked since Sunday
 

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I dont wannt ask her out her not be interested and it's all awkward on the bus.
 

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we texted a bit sunday just small talk. she mentioned we all should go out to a bar that everyone frequents. key word said said all of us. lol this was sat and I said was "sure I would be down". that was the end of the conversation. should I maybe shoot her a text? I dont want the flame burning out. I know for a fact were all on going to a concert the 14th that's in a little less then 2 weeks
All of us should go out to that bar, so all of us can judge you.
I'm gonna bring my parents, my friends, my orbiters, my cousins, my siblings, my neighbors, my roommates, my ex-boyfriends, and practically everyone else that will c0ckblock you.


Ryan..........
It's over. The coffin is already nailed shut and never opening again.
The next step is getting buried. Enjoy!
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I dont wannt ask her out her not be interested and it's all awkward on the bus.
Then don't let it be awkward. This is THE moment in time where you give no fvcks when it comes to rejection.

She says no? Cool. You move on. When you see her on the bus, you smile, say hello, hug her (if that's the norm) and find a new hottie to flirt with. No worries on your end!

You've got to evolve past letting rejection dictate how you behave moving on.
 

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wow thats harsh lol how is it already done
You are a broken record on here so what do you expect? You sort of get a woman's interest, even though I am quite certain at this point that these women are 100% not interested in you sexually, just for validation and to toy with you, which raises their level of self esteem.

You are failing to implement and apply what people are telling you on here to attract the sexual interest and you quickly become a toy for these women to play with when they are bored, have no other options and just need their ego stroked through validation.

You just keep doing it over and over again. The threads are all the same, only the woman its happening with changes. What does that tell you? Do you think all women are like that? The ones that I am currently talking to and fvcking arent, I dont have time for it.

Until you change (mentally and how you look at the relationships with these women) your results will stay the same.
 

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You are a broken record on here so what do you expect? You sort of get a woman's interest, even though I am quite certain at this point that these women are 100% not interested in you sexually, just for validation and to toy with you, which raises their level of self esteem.

You are failing to implement and apply what people are telling you on here to attract the sexual interest and you quickly become a toy for these women to play with when they are bored, have no other options and just need their ego stroked through validation.

You just keep doing it over and over again. The threads are all the same, only the woman its happening with changes. What does that tell you? Do you think all women are like that? The ones that I am currently talking to and fvcking arent, I dont have time for it.

Until you change (mentally and how you look at the relationships with these women) your results will stay the same.
Wow,lol. You could put this exact same post over in ANY of "Bigdave's" threads and it would be just as fitting and appropiate.

(and just as ignored).
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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You are a broken record on here so what do you expect? You sort of get a woman's interest, even though I am quite certain at this point that these women are 100% not interested in you sexually, just for validation and to toy with you, which raises their level of self esteem.

You are failing to implement and apply what people are telling you on here to attract the sexual interest and you quickly become a toy for these women to play with when they are bored, have no other options and just need their ego stroked through validation.

You just keep doing it over and over again. The threads are all the same, only the woman its happening with changes. What does that tell you? Do you think all women are like that? The ones that I am currently talking to and fvcking arent, I dont have time for it.

Until you change (mentally and how you look at the relationships with these women) your results will stay the same.
ok tell what I should of done aa opposed to what I have been doing
 

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Nobody is giving/going to give you advise anymore because you dont apply what we are telling you.

Continue on with what you have been doing with women and continue getting the same results. I think we are all past the point of caring and wasting our time responding to your posts.

That's my last piece of advise to you.
 

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she has been texting me. last night she asked me to see fireworks but we werent gonna make it so us and a bunch of other people met and went to get some food. she sat next to me and I flirted with her. but I cant really tell if she is interested or not. it's hard to judge her sister was like Ryan it's too early to ask her out right now wait a little.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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