"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Met a new girl.. can't really understand her

cobra commander

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At first I just sent her some messages online messing around and it totally wasn't how I act and was being kind of goofy.. but I could tell she would also iniate conversation with me so I wasn't the only one the whole time. Neither of us were talking just now so I signed off but in the future.. what are some other signs I can look for in her?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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cobra commander

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should i send her this message:

me said:
Before I go to sleep I'd like to comment on a couple things on your profile that I'm going to comment on:

1. What are the black marks around the proximity of your eye? I'm thinking eyeliner but it's not in any of the other pictures? What's up with that?

2. My friend has the same bathing suit you have on in your picture... thought I'd let ya know.
 

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Those lines crack me up.

You're not supposed to be too goofy with women nor to come off as too arrogant. Either read the Dj bible or get a book. I learned from both.

But I wont even get into the trouble of typing explanations, because you have so much to learn that wont be learnt in one forum post. So start reading.

And DO NOT send those lines. That isn't funny to me, but more of a meaningless desperate attempt to get the girl's attention. You're supposed to be ****y AND funny. Neither too ****y neither to goofy. Those two lines are just arrogant, and she will probably think that you're a jerk.

After you do a little reading you will probably also develop a better sense of humor. :up:
 
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