Met a look-alike of my ex-oneitis today while at work...

[Poonani Maker]

I just have this "Type" of girl that brings tears to my eyes, like, idk, I just Love, this type of girl. I've met maybe 4 in 5 years that remind me of her. It's like an Instant connection, and it's not just Me. She reciprocates an attraction for me as well, this Type. I will probably never see this one again however, as this was 50 miles away from where I usually work and live. I felt like she wanted me to stay there longer. This "Type" has a cowgirl Blond blue eyes small frame, cute lips, saucer eyes and eyeshadow, and rather small breasts. When I saw this look-alike today, it welled up a loving emotion in me I can't describe, and I sense that she picked up on my being Drawn toward her.

Should you NEVER get married unless you KNOW what your type is and Stick to it?? i.e. Don't deviate from what attracts you the most for the long term? I'd like to be wholly attracted to other so-called "Hot" females but this One type just does it for me in every way. I can't describe it. She could tell I wanted her, or loved her having just met, but it didn't scare her. The girl today Knew something was out of the ordinary, like we'd met in a past life or something, because well, she don't know that I used to be gf/bf with an identical personality and figure. It's kind of like I've been primed for her already, but she doesn't know it, and may think it's just fate that we are so attracted to each other.

I may see her again tomorrow, or this summer. I could request to work there, and be granted that request, no problem. Why can't I shake this "Idea" of the perfect girl for me? There must be many perfect girls for me, but I only see that rare doll of one as being IT, like a b!tch would.

I get plenty of come'ons from women daily, but THIS Rare oneitis holds back her outright sexual advances, and just acts all innocent like a little girl. She masks her desires very well. I guess that's why I'm so attracted to her, idk.

 

[Poonani Maker]

Well, I've been seeing ANOTHER oneitis look-alike act-alike for the past month where I live. The only difference is that this one is Hispanic, not Irish, like the original mold (who dumped me and married some police captain dude).

So I told my bud that I liked this gal, and now I suspect, within a matter of ONE fvckin day, he told her I liked her, not sure, but today she (I haven't seen her in a week or so) was rather flirtatious with me and stopping me, asking me extra questions trying to prolong our conversation. The whole time I didn't speak as much as she did as I was trying to assess why she was confronting me. She REALLY made me FEEL good inside like the sun or shinning light. She said, "Have a great weekend" and I just sorta said, "Thanks" Thanks?? Wtf is my problem?!

This is a girl that I would really love to have, but I have a gut feeling that she's BAD for me just like the original prototype (who burned me) was.

This new gal (today was the longest we've ever talked) was obviously nervous and stumbling with her words here and there as if she was auditioning for me. She was cute, but I also viewed her as stupid, but I really don't care. She has the same rolled up pant-legs "cute" knees look that my ex-one had. I've been tempted to ask her if she knows Eve, if they're best friends or something, because everything about her (minus the Hispanic) is just like her. Do you think that these gals just get bred this way in this part of the country or is it a Church/religion thing? that they go to the same church? Why do I keep running into replicas of my ex???

You would NEVER find this type of girl in the south where I'm from, only out west.

 

[HalfAddict]

I understand where you're coming from dude.. every time I see a brunette in a tight dress with that 1950's rockabilly style I get a chub.