Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Met a HOT woman online tonight

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I just checked her profile and she changed her location to another country.

Now why in the hell would somebody do that?

Could the guy who said she is some kind of scammer is onto something?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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My Name is Nobody said:
Well here is something that will make you scratch your head.

I just looked at her profile and she changed her location to the "Virgin Islands".

Maybe the guy who said she is a scammer is onto something.
The only reason that you could be scratching your head is because you don't really know where you stand with her. I've had women send me their phone number before deactivating their ads because of the bazaar emails they were getting from guys. I could care less what they do with their profiles; we're still getting together, that's what matters.
 

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that could be right. But don't give your brain a turn by thinking too much about her or what she might be...
Learn from your mistakes, date her and/or date some other chicks.

cheers
 

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I agree with cedd on this one. I think that you shouldn't have mentioned seeing her again just yet... let her wonder if YOU are interested in her or not, for a couple of days. Whether or not her IL is high, doesn't matter, her vanity will get the best of her and she will wonder... which creates IL!

Just don't contact her for a couple of days, til you think of something good to do.
 
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I have come to the conclusion that this woman was a gold digger and I am going to next her.

She needs a green card. She has only been in the country for a year and lives with a host family.

She told me how she has an easy life and only has to work a few hours a day. She travels all the time all over the world. On who's dime?

I didn't hide the fact I bust my ass 7 days a week to pay for my house and never have time to do sh1t. I should have LIED.

Plus we didn't have much in common. I don't speak her language and my game couldn't overcome this... plus the other things I mentioned.

She was really beautiful no doubt about that and some rich guy will probably marry her for that and give her $$$ too. I'm sure she knows this. Who would want to go back to that sh1thole country she came from?

Also when I asked her if she misses her family she looked MEAN and said "NO!"


She probably thought I could be a good $$$ catch because of my ****y and Funny routines.

I could be wrong about this but I really don't think so. When I never call her again she is going to be like WTF??
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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