Met a HOT woman online tonight

[iqqi]

Sup Iqqi

The only surefire way to NOT be the AFC is to not contact her again for at least a week and that's my plan. Unless I hear from her of course.

I don't see how a woman could have HIGH IL from just meeting online a few days ago off a free dating site, and not even face to face yet.

I think you are on her nuts too much, and now you need to back off. The texting may have been a little too much. You aren't being mysterious AT ALL.

This might be too advanced for you... but if I was you, I wouldn't contact her again. Wait til she contacts you. When she does, she will probably text you and say "hey what's up." say "hey" back to her, after like 10 minutes. then ignore her next reply for like a day or two. hit us back here, after she first texts you, and report.

This is really childish and gamey... but her IL is dangerously low, and you may have to resort to games for a hot second. I am advising on an almost gangi approach to this chick.

The real solution would be to have another plate or three spinning... but I doubt that you do. SO what I am telling you to do is act like you do.

 

[My Name is Nobody]

The real solution would be to have another plate or three spinning... but I doubt that you do. SO what I am telling you to do is act like you do.

Wrong. I got laid recently and I gave it to her really good all night long. Probably the best she has been shagged in years and it's not over.

So I have plates spinning.

 

[iqqi]

Wrong. I got laid recently and I gave it to her really good all night long. Probably the best she has been shagged in years and it's not over.

So I have plates spinning.

hahaha, well then, that's hot! good job. keep it up. get one or two more, and you should be golden.

 

[My Name is Nobody]

hahaha, well then, that's hot! good job. keep it up. get one or two more, and you should be golden.

I actually really like her but she has personal issues keeping us from going out more often. Plus there are certain things about me she isn't thrilled about. But we have been talking recently and the tension is building back up.

 

[iqqi]

Well don't invest too much into anything that you shouldn't, if you know what I mean. Until a chick gives you a good reason to invest, keep putting your stock into mutual funds. You dig?

 

[My Name is Nobody]

Well don't invest too much into anything that you shouldn't, if you know what I mean. Until a chick gives you a good reason to invest, keep putting your stock into mutual funds. You dig?

I am confident that this new girl we were talking about has more interest than you think. Why? Because my friend Francisco has been aiding and abedding me in all my contacts with this new girl. And Francisco knows what's up.

 

[iqqi]

I am confident that this new girl we were talking about has more interest than you think. Why? Because my friend Francisco has been aiding and abedding me in all my contacts with this new girl. And Francisco knows what's up.

That's all fine and dandy. But keep in mind what I said about investments.

 

[My Name is Nobody]

That's all fine and dandy. But keep in mind what I said about investments.

Thanks for the tips, I'll keep it in mind.

 

[miba]

Shes scamming you.

 

[My Name is Nobody]

Coffee date set for tomorrow evening. Hopefully she doesn't flake. I'm still breaking her down right now via online chat.

Wish me luck!

 

[Poonani Maker]

I had a dental assistant woman on that very site contact me for live chat and said she was going boating with friends tomorrow. I said, "You should ask ME to go" and she says, "I should, should I?" and I say, "Yeah." She didn't and the next day she emailed me and said that they didn't go. I said fvck this b1tch and haven't contacted her since. Women are sooo much falsifiers and flakers. I haven't found too many who can be up front and straight. Their minds just dribble from one side to the other - no real stability. That's why I just be bold and tell them how I want it, take it or leave it. I had one ask me what day I'd like to go out Friday or Sunday, and I said, "Both!" and of course, she said, "You can't have both" and I said, "Fine, neither then" and hung up.

 

[My Name is Nobody]

I had a dental assistant woman on that very site contact me for live chat and said she was going boating with friends tomorrow. I said, "You should ask ME to go" and she says, "I should, should I?" and I say, "Yeah." She didn't and the next day she emailed me and said that they didn't go. I said fvck this b1tch and haven't contacted her since. Women are sooo much falsifiers and flakers. I haven't found too many who can't be up front and straight. Their minds just dribble from one side to the other - no real stability. That's why I just be bold and tell them how I want it, take it or leave it. I had one ask me what day I'd like to go out Friday or Sunday, and I said, "Both!" and of course, she said, "You can't have both" and I said, "Fine, neither then" and hung up.

Why did you act rude like that?? She was about to meet up with you.


Well I got her to agree to meet me for coffee tomorrow evening.
I have a good feeling she won't flake because I have been making her laugh every time we interact with ****y and funny and she says I'm really funny. That ****y and funny stuff works so well it's amazing. It catches them off guard because they are so used to AFC's.

She said she looks forward to meeting me so we shall see!

Hopefully I can extend the coffee date to a movie or dinner so I can make a move.

 

[JDA70]

Hopefully I can extend the coffee date to a movie or dinner so I can make a move.

Hold up there bro.

Read carfully.

Just go on the coffee date and wait a couple days
and set up another date.

Don't run her over. Be mysterious. Be different.
Don't be all like " Hey, how about dinner and a movie?"
Save that for later on in the relationship.

Think of other fun things to go out and do.

 

[My Name is Nobody]

Hold up there bro.

Read carfully.

Just go on the coffee date and wait a couple days
and set up another date.

Don't run her over. Be mysterious. Be different.
Don't be all like " Hey, how about dinner and a movie?"
Save that for later on in the relationship.

Think of other fun things to go out and do.

You're right. I should just talk to her for 30 minutes and get the hell out of there. I shouldn't worry about kissing her or extending the date. I just need to show her I am a cool guy.

But what do you mean by think of other fun things to do? You mean with her or after I get out of the date?

Thanks, I almost blew it before it even started.

 

[My Name is Nobody]

Countdown to date... 9 hours! Any last minute tips? I REALLY want to update this thread with good news. So far I have gotten some great tips in this thread.
From things to talk about and the most recent tip don't try to escalate, just be cool, drink the coffee and get the hell out of dodge.

My main goal is to just get her interested in a 2nd date and NOT scare her off.

 

[iqqi]

Chat with her for a bit, then say you got to run. If she asks what, say something witty. Or something like "If you want to know, you'll have to come with" but then you better follow it up with something interesting. Not dinner and a movie. And if she declines the mysterious invite, act like its her loss... but you gotta go! (be half joking half serious so she isn't sure...) but don't seem weird!

Think you can do all that?

 

[AFC Savior]

the fact that you are counting down to your date shows that you are way way too desperate and have too much invested into a simple 30 minute coffee chat

RELAX MOTHA****A and dont think about her, instead go and get a few more numbers and set up some more dates for the weekend!!

 

[My Name is Nobody]

the fact that you are counting down to your date shows that you are way way too desperate and have too much invested into a simple 30 minute coffee chat

RELAX MOTHA****A and dont think about her, instead go and get a few more numbers and set up some more dates for the weekend!!

I'm cool. I know I come across like an excited puppy but I'm in control. Wil be posting an update tonight.

Any more tips are welcome!!

 

[My Name is Nobody]

Chat with her for a bit, then say you got to run. If she asks what, say something witty. Or something like "If you want to know, you'll have to come with" but then you better follow it up with something interesting. Not dinner and a movie. And if she declines the mysterious invite, act like its her loss... but you gotta go! (be half joking half serious so she isn't sure...) but don't seem weird!

Think you can do all that?

That's pretty good iqqi, I'm going to use it.

 

[My Name is Nobody]

I texted her "reminder: coffee with cool guy tonight" She didnt reply yet.

Call to confirm the date? I know there are varying opinions on this.

Yay or Nay?